I was w/a a boy we were in love but he had a baby mama so she was the reason why we never hooked up and then I just got fed and "tried" moving on and I've been someone else for six months and we are cool but I cnt seem to get over him and he keeps poppin up and we still feel the same what do I do
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First, read the AMHD rules... if you can't write w/out chatspeak, don't waste site resources. There's a good chance this thread will be deleted because you aren't willing to use a few more consonants and vowels.

Second, hmm... well... what's upsetting you? That he slept with another woman? That he has a child that he is morally obligated to care for, regardless of the other woman's disposition?

Don't know. Ill never get this question.

I've dated three women who had children out of marriage. It happens. It didn't make the women less attractive.

As for the men... what do you expect to hear? Make it all about her? Fine. He dropped his pants. He got her pregnant. What? You're afraid to deal with this boys past and his reality and his future?

If the child is too much for you to bear, get away from him and let him be the father he needs to be, even if the baby momma isn't right for him.