[jacobandy]

So me and my girlfriend got into an argument which led her to need time to think over our relationship. She was extremely hurt and very dissapointed she said she cried her heart out that night... She said she didn't want to have a future where all we did was argue...
Its been a week since she called me, so I called her today and she said that she really needed time because she didn't want to say anything she didn't mean because she was upset, and I know girls say things they don't mean when their upset.
Our argument was about about me coming down for her birthday and that it didn't seem like I wanted to come see her (which is not true at all) which led to her thinking that I don't try in the relationship due to me not calling her back when she hangs up on me when we argue and that I only tend to apologize when I see her cry and she is worried that I would do the same thing in the future. But I NEVER intentionally do it on purpose but I know I do it, and its something I need to work on...

I can tell she's still very upset about our argument. She said for me to not call or text her anymore until she clears her mind and knows what she really wants.

She said some cold things that hurt when I talked to her, and she knew it but she said she was upset so I can understasnd her saying it. She just says she really needs time and she doesn't want to do or say anything to ruin the relationship at the moment because of her being upset. She is also going through some stress with her business as well.

My question is if I leave her alone will her anger/sadness subside? Do girls miss their boyfriends after a while of no contact??

Additional info: we been together for 3 years, talk about marriage all the time, planned our marriage, told her parents she's going to marry me etc... weve been through so much with each other, both I and her know that... I know we both love each other so much, she means everything to me and so much more...
Its been a total of 2 weeks in which I didn't talk to her except once...

I just need some insight on my situation

[real soldier]

Listen mate I had the same problem with my girlfriend, I'm telling you man talk this over with her, don't make out you need her but tell her that if you do want to last with me we have to work together so lets just sort things out, you have to get it into her mind that the people in the relationship control how it goes or lasts, so tell her that mate, trust me,

[real soldier]

But if you do get into an argument with her don't raise your voice, play it cool and if you act like your not bothered she will want more of you, and during an argument don't offend her about her looks or anything, next time she does summin wrong talk it over with her niclely, tell her you will give as good as you get and give her what she needs, and then say to her now we can either last together and work on stuff and it will pay off, or we can forget everything but if we just forget everything it's a loss for both of us