[letitbe1111]

I was in a bad relationship and I ended it a couple of months ago. Yaay me! Several months ago, an old friend contacted me online. We wrote back and forth, but I stopped because I was dating someone and was starting to have feelings for him (the old friend). After my boyfriend and I broke up I emailed him and we went back and forth for a while. I said he should contact me if he wanted to hang out some time. He wrote back that he'd like to go see live music sometime. I wrote back and gave him my number and now I haven't heard from him in a week! Did I do something wrong? I can't think of anything. A few years ago we met out and totally hit it off and he got my number. He didn't call, but I found out later that he had gotten back with his ex girlfriend. (I confirmed this)...

Now I know he's single. We are both 35, and I don't mean to be all :eek:, but I like this guy and I'm wondering what happened!

Also, I know some may say it's early to begin dating again, but I feel more centered than ever and am really ready for a mature relationship.

[I wish]

Sounds like he's not as interested in you as you thought. Maybe it's time to meet new people and not go backwards.

It might be too soon to get a new boyfriend, but it's not too soon to meet new people.

[88sunflower]

Yep its never to soon to meet new people. That's an excellent comment! You don't know if something has come up in his life that has tied him up. But at any rate don't hang on to it. Just keep going and meet people and you don't know. The one might be right there waiting in the distance for you to find him. Don't waste your time on something that hasn't even started yet. It's a waste don't you think?

[scott_1976]

Go out and have some fun, if he likes you he will call you trust me. If it happens and even if it doesn't so what you tried and that is all you can do!

[letitbe1111]

Yep its never to soon to meet new people. Thats an excellent comment! You dont know if something has come up in his life that has tied him up. But at any rate dont hang on to it. Just keep going and meet people and you dont know. The one might be right there waiting in the distance for you to find him. Dont waste your time on something that hasnt even started yet. Its a waste dont you think?

Yeah, I know it's dumb! I really thought this might be a good situation, but you're right. I need to get my sass back after that crummy last relationship anyway :D.

[88sunflower]

Yeah, I know it's dumb! I really thought this might be a good situation, but you're right. I need to get my sass back after that crummy last relationship anyway :D.

Yes get sassy and back in the game!