Originally Posted by
Holly23
Im not an idiot.
Basically Im with a guy, who Im in love with.
He treats me very well.We have great trust for eachother.Its all good, except Im totally anti drug..and he enjoys the occasional buzz we'll say..
I dont know what to do.To stay or not?
Is that so? I advise you to refrain from defending yourself against your insecurities, for the longer you fight them, the deeper they take root in you, as they are always on your mind.
Love comes and it goes, haven't you seen/read "He's just not that into you."? Relax a little, and breath. You have yourself backed into a corner already and we havent' even said anything, let your defences down and maybe you'll see that we aren't here just to tell how we see it.
If you love him, then either you learn to accept his occasional "buzz" endevor. Then again you could, as Mudweiser said, just be his friend and maybe he will grow out of it, or you will find some one else.
As hellen Keller said,“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.”
Peace and kindness be with you.