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    May 22, 2009, 04:37 AM
    Normal relationship or am I crazy?
    I don't know if this is a question I just want to know if its normal

    Me and this guy have been together for about 2 maybe 3 months OK and we have liked each other for maybe a year year and a half, I really like him BUT HE NEVER Tries ANYTHING so I thought screw this I'm going to ask him out
    I called him last night and asked him round this mourning and its raining still
    He rode his bike (we're 15)
    He was drenched
    So I walked and was drenched too and just standing there we hugged to keep warm and then we kissed well I kissed him and then he kissed back it was I don't know um... a let down
    Anyway I had work so I had to go and he had something on too so we spit and its only Saturday
    What happens on Monday at school I mean we only 'go out' outside of school
    Can we control ourselves?
    Are we normal?
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    May 22, 2009, 06:41 AM
    You guys are still really young, so your relationship might not be as active. But if you really want to do more activities with them, then tell him how you feel. Tell him exactly what you told us that you feel like he never "tries".
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    May 22, 2009, 07:18 AM

    What was a letdown? His kiss? You are 15. You have to practice. Maybe he never kissed a girl or has no experience. I can say that when I started dating I was a average kisser but after you kiss a lot you become a lot better at it. Plus he may have been nervous and unexpecting.
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    May 22, 2009, 07:42 AM

    Wow, I had never kissed anyone when I was 15, maybe he hadn't either.

    Don't read too much into it.

    The rest of your question I didn't understand.
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