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Krs · Oct 4, 2006, 07:09 AM

Me... personally, if I were in your shoes... I would send her the email.
Now I don't whether it's the right thing to do or not, but I speak sincerely and say yes I would send it.. after all, why not.
Don't write anything as you said just make sure she knows it came from you and that's it.

Wildcat21 · Oct 4, 2006, 08:37 AM

The man thing would be to move on.

But, personally - I'd send it. It would actually give you more power back.

It may also help you move on - not sure you really want this gal back anyway - right? After more stuff like this - you got to wonder what else.

I think it's good she should know that eventually her boyfriend WILL find out one way or another.

If she was chaeting, well, you probably know may saying about cheating - once a cheater, always a cheater - I don't know ANY cheaters who ever stop.

Sometimes it's just best to move on.

kadd0007 · Oct 4, 2006, 08:48 AM

Well I am moving on in a very healthy way as far as I am concerned.

However I am scared if I send her the picture she's going to think I am phsyco and accuse me of stalking her and meedling in her business, I only came across the picture by pure luck!! So I don't know...

Still thinking about but not too sure if I am going to do it...

Wildcat21 · Oct 4, 2006, 08:52 AM

When is the last time you contacted her?

Say - He I found this. Then don't contact her ever again.

Do you care, after finding this picture, wah tshe really thinks right now? She should be embarrassed.

kadd0007 · Oct 4, 2006, 10:13 AM

We last talked a month ago, and to answer your question I could really care less to what she thinks of me.

However we do have mutual friends and I just don't want her to go and run her mouth about me, also I am starting to think she is not even worth the time so,,

Wildcat21 · Oct 4, 2006, 10:45 AM

Well - I do think you have agood come back if anyone brought it up. "I jsut wanted her to know I knew about this particluar situatin" - I'd like to see her explain that picture to anyone.

BIM · Oct 4, 2006, 11:24 AM

Originally Posted by kadd0007

i only came across the picture by pure luck!!!

You said you got this picture emailed to you. But here you say you came across it by pure luck. :rolleyes:

If someone emailed it to you - what's the problem with emailing it to her. I you had it emailed to you all you have to do is tell you friends that and that you forwarded it to her.

kadd0007 · Oct 4, 2006, 11:32 AM

Yeah it makes sense, but honestly guys if you knew this chick you would want to saty away from here as well. She is SO MEAN and I am sure she will find a way to turn this around and hurt my feelings and I don't want to get back into that visious circle so I am staying away for now.

HOWEVER like I said we have mutual friends and I WILL bring it up when the time is right, I just don't want to do it directly through her, so it will come out its just a matter of time...

YeloDasy · Oct 4, 2006, 11:36 AM

Well, instinct is to want to forward the photo to her... I would want to do the same! But why did someone send it to you anyway?

Wildcat21 · Oct 4, 2006, 12:05 PM

Dude - if she is that way then you should be HAPPY you're not with her. Why would you want to be with a potential mean person - ughhhhhhhhhhhh - you live with her or marry and watch things really change. I'd run!

Yu didn't give us that info before. She doesn't sound like she's worth it.

I's send the picture for sure now. Grow some balls and if someone asks you about tell them the real story. Caught her cheating.

kadd0007 · Oct 4, 2006, 01:08 PM

LOL wildcat man you should do this for a living, to answer the other question, the picture was sent to me by a friend that always told me to leave her! So it was a way of him to say " i told you so" which I apprecited it because I am so disgusted by her that it makes me feel better in a weird way, and YES I am so happy I am not with her...

BTW I already told her best friend, I told her in a casual way which means she will know very soon lol... couldn't keep it in...

YeloDasy · Oct 4, 2006, 01:13 PM

Let it be... her friend will tell you and you don't even have to get involved! Better for you! Good luck and I hope you find someone that makes you happy!

Wildcat21 · Oct 4, 2006, 02:18 PM

Yes - that was a better way.

Now get out there and date - lots of GREAT women out there.

You know not to what to look for now.

s_cianci · Oct 4, 2006, 06:59 PM

Originally Posted by kadd0007

However i am scared if i send her the picture she's going to think i am phsyco and accuse me of stalking her and meedling in her business, i only came across the picture by pure luck!!! so i dont know....

I seriously doubt that you came across the picture "by pure luck." Someone wanted you to find it. But you make a good point about possibly setting yourself up for accusations of stalking. That said, it's probably most wise not to send it on ; just delete it and forget about it.