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    Mar 31, 2009, 07:51 AM
    Confused and lost
    Hello guys Here's my Problem I have a friend from last one year I met her once and start talking in the beginning we start texting and emailing and talking online a lot I really liked her and cared for her I thought she had the same feelings for me too but in the middle we had few fights because I ignored her when I saw her talking to some other guys the same way she was talking to me and than she left for other country for one and half month when she came back we started to talk again the same way we used to before but this time she never called me or text me I asked her she said why don't you call me if you want to talk to me I said OK so I sent her few text messages she didn't reply and after a weak she came online and told me not to text her in the middle of the night or during the school time or call her names like babes and stuff it was like a week ago now I don't know what to do I'm so confused what happened and I saw her online chatting up another guy too can anyone help what should I do I'm so lost
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    Mar 31, 2009, 08:13 AM

    No reason to be lost, this relationship has no potential and she is telling you that she is not interested. Time to listen, you can't make someone interested or want to be with you.
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    Mar 31, 2009, 08:23 AM

    She is only interested in a friendship not a serious romantic relationship.

    She is just a chat person who jumps from one chat person to another.

    Find someone else to chat with .You have the entire world at your fingertips!
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    Mar 31, 2009, 08:47 AM

    First off, you sound a bit possessive. You do not own her. It does not matter who or how she talks with other guys.

    Secondly, you should not be using the word "babe" to any girl. It's really de-grading. Maybe a one time thing, but not as her nickname.

    Third, she sounds like she had some interest in the beginning, but as she got to know you, she realized that you're not who she thought you were.

    You don't have to give up on her and this might sound harsh, but I think that you should take some time to learn treat a girl with respect before trying to talk to her again.
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    Mar 31, 2009, 09:50 AM

    Thanks I know how to Treat a girl but I guess I was too emotioanly involved I realize it now maybe I didn't treat her well but now its too late to fix things I sent her an email telling her how I feel about her and it really hurt me the way she asked me not to text her and she sent me Email saying she only thought about me as a friend which is not true I didn't reply and than she sent me a email again thinking maybe I didn't get the first email now I don't know shuould I reply to her or just move on
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    Mar 31, 2009, 10:25 AM

    You need to move on, she is not interested in a relationship with you.
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    Mar 31, 2009, 02:36 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Carloss View Post
    Thanks i know how to Treat a girl but i guess i was too emotioanly involved i realize it now maybe i didnt treat her well but now its too late to fix things i sent her an email telling her how i feel about her and it really hurt me the way she asked me not to text her and she sent me Email saying she only thought about me as a friend which is not true i didnt reply and than she sent me a email again thinking maybe i didnt get the first email now i dont know shuould i reply to her or just move on
    It sounds like she doesn't want to look like the bad girl, so she wants to make sure that you don't have any hard feelings against her.

    If you still want to stay friends, then you can email her back. Otherwise, there's not much point.
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    Apr 1, 2009, 06:22 AM

    Thankss Guys I have decided not to reply to her until I can stabalize myself emotionaly maybe later on in the future we can be friends again but right now I don't feel like seeing her it just hurts

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