[samjg]

Hello again everyone! Long time no hear from me! Last time I wrote on here I was writing about my boyfriend at the time I was having troubles with... well recently we have just broken up... well it been a couple of months.. he has already got a girlfriend and moved on! Were as for me I am still hurting over us. Like.. I love him! Still! We were together for a year and a halF! In case you don't couple me I am 16 yr old girl and he a 24yr old male and we lived together for a year and towards the end were having a lot of troubleS! I'm just so confused because I still love him so much and know that I always will and it kills me to know he is with someone else now! He loves someone else! We have spoken a few times since the break up its normally just arguments and *****ing at each other but when we not the other times we talk good to each other I just don't know what to do because he makes it sound like he will come back to me, then when I start to believe it he'll back down and we'll start arguing again! I told him to come and get the rest of his stuff as I didn't want it laying around our room anymore and he told me just to keep it and he'llk get it soon! And just to keep it with me.. all I said was I won't it out of our room and he just made it sound like I should keep it there as he is coming back then he keeps saying " who knows wat will happen down the path" then we'll be all good then argue again then he'll say "he knows wat will happen when we both grow up a bit" its just so confusing as I would do anything for this man and so would my family! He is family to all of them! I just so confused! I don't know what he wants anymore.. I want him back so much! I miss him I'm sick of doing this without him! :( :confused:

[Krs]

You are so young! 16.
Why get attached now?

I know you can't help who you love but this only making you sadder isn't?
Do you want to be in a relationship where there are only arguments?

[J_9]

I agree with Krs, you are so young. You are 16 and he is 24. I don't know where you are from, but where I am from he would be arrested. That is against the law here. For many reasons.

You are so young and have a lot of life ahead of you. He broke up with you, just let him go. The more you keep trying to get back, the more you are pushing him away.

You should not have any contact with him at all right now. Give him a chance to miss you. The more you fight, the more he realizes that he does not want to be with you.

You both are at different maturity levels in your life psychologically. Many 24 year old men I know only want to be with a 16 year old for one reason and one reason only.

Take some time for you, to find out who YOU are. It is best you try to find someone closer to your age.

[talaniman]

Your not going to like this but it is important that you break off all contact with him and start looking to get over this failed relationship. If he wanted you and loved you as you love him he would be with you. He has moved on and gives you just enough hope to keep you waiting. Not good. It is important that you not be waiting for him any longer and work on getting your life together without him.

[samjg]

Hey everyone thank you for your opinions on this matter.. I am from australia so when you are 16 you are legal! I do very much love this man and well he visited today, he said he thinks we need this break as who knows what will happen when I grow up a bit! w\hich I understand that as we argued mostly over him being able to go out and I had to stay at home as I wasn't old enough and yeah he said we need to see what happens when I'm a bit older! Everyone on here always says a 24yr old is noly in it for one reason.. its not just about sex with him, it never was from the start! That was more important to me than him! I don't want to date people my age as they are so immature! I don't have any friends my age even, everyone I am friends wit is 18+.. that's why I'm a lot more mature than most 16yr olds and hate being around others my age, they just annoy me and I know I'm there age but I still look at them like they little kids! So it really hard for me to date someone my age, and 24 isn't that old. Really.. in the heart and personality of him he is still a happy little kid to be around! It just very hard, I know I should take advantage of being young and have fun but I have done all that and grown up too quickly and this mmy mum understands as she was 15 when she fell pregnant, and that's why I love her because she knows how I feel.. and that's why she was OK with him and I being together and him living with us she loved him so much too ! He just confuses me by saying this! Out of all my boyfriends I thought I loved and got over the breakups with them in like a week it was nothing like this as we were together for so long and living together, went through so much together.. and I'm still not over it all and it been months! I just miss him...