My dad doesn't want me to go out anymore
OK so I am a 20 year old girl, almost 21. Im graduating college in a year. I work and I go to school. Im going to start by saying.. I started having friends when I started college. In high school, I was very quiet. I did have a few friends and I went out mayb three times a month. My confidence ever since I graduated high school went up so high.. that I have too many friends now and I go out all the time. As you probably know, college nightlife starts on thursdays.. So I go out thurs- sat. By dad thinks I go out too much and that I should be allowed out only once a week and be home the latest at 12,1.. I disagree with that because I feel that if my parents let me go out whenever.. I would mature faster and realize later on that I don't have to go out.. and maybe get sick of it. So since I started late of going out, right now I'm at a 17 yr old level. Do you get what I'm saying. What do you think.. do you think he's wrong? I feel that we only live once and we should enjoy life to the fullest. And since I'm still young, I should go out and enjoy myself. Its not like I don't work or don't go to school. Im a good kid, I'm responsible. I just don't get it. My dad tells me that at this age I should start looking for what I want in life and career goals. But I do have goals in life.. I'm still in school. I mean I think I'm at the age where I should start being independent and making my own decisions. But he wants me to stop going outt.. because he says I go out too much. He doesn't get it.. I don't know.. just help me.
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