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    mak_killer Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 18, 2009, 07:51 PM
    We are on break
    I have been dating with this girl from last three months.we work togeather.she broke up with her ex and we started dating after month she broke up with him.it has been three months and evrything was going OK and we were in relationship.now she asked for break because she said she still have some feeling left for her ex.she said to me that she doesn't want to go back beacuase I am better person.but she is confused about what to do? We are on break.I don't know what am I supposed to do? Should I break up with her?
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    Mar 18, 2009, 08:20 PM

    Sounds like she was being honest with you by letting you know that she still has feelings for her ex (which shows promise). Do you know how long they were together? If it was a long-term relationship, it's understandable that she may need more time to get over him before she can give you 100%.

    How strong are your feelings for her? That would determine whether you think she's worth waiting for. Give her some time to sort things out because it's hard ending one relationship and starting another right away. Plus, don't you want to feel like she really wants to be with you rather than being the rebound guy?

    As long as she's letting you know how she feels and isn't stringing you along, there's no harm in giving her a little time to get her head straight.
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    Mar 19, 2009, 06:27 AM

    It sounds to me like she hasn't had enough time to heal from her last relationship, a month is not a long time. I know that the healing process varies for different people.

    It is good that she is being honest with you. The only thing you can do is give her some space and time and see what happens from there. I sugest that you don't put yourself on hold for her.you will soon find out if she wants a relationship with you or not.
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    Mar 19, 2009, 06:59 AM

    Give her what she asked for, and go back to doing what you do for yourself, before she came along. She will let you know when she is unconfused.
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    Mar 19, 2009, 07:21 AM

    Thanks guys I think I should give her more time and space .I love her its really hard for me to end the reraltionship as well.but we work togeather some time and when I see her I feel like kissing her.what should I do at wok sitiuation.
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    Mar 19, 2009, 07:31 AM

    Strictly business, polite but unavailable. Work is not a place for personal, deep conversations.
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