[BlueTit]

I am currently in a relationship, I think. The issue I have is I do not know what has happed:( at the start of this week we where just as normal saying how much we love each other etc. but during the week another girl who aparently likes me also has confronted my girlfriend and started of occusing her of stealing me off her, when she never had me in the first place.

This has put a lot of strain on our relationship. Whenever I see my girlfriend she won't look at me or even give me a hug. She won't talk to me, over the phone or in person. I feel like I'm losing her but I cannot understad what I have done:(

Please someone help me.. she the world to me and I cannot loose her :(

[neverme]

What age are you guys?


And how long have you two been together?

[BlueTit]

I am 16 and so are they.

and how long have you two been together?

We have been together nearly 2 years

[neverme]

Well to be honest it seems a bit of juvenile problem to break up at 2 year relationship, unless this was apparently while you were going out...


.. or is this girl from 2 years ago?

[BlueTit]

I have been with emma for 2 years, but only know this other girl is being like this. I'm so confused and emma is upset. The other girl is in a relationship herself but is still determind to ruin our relationship

[talaniman]

Talk to Emma, and see why she would believe a stranger over you. They are strangers aren't they? Had a problem with her, or her friends before?

[xoxaprilwine]

Communication is the key. When my hubby and I where dating back at 17 and 18, he had a friend that took a great liking to me... I had no idea. We didn't hang out with his friends and so they accused me of being a snob... so I went to a party (first one my husband actually said "lets go to") and decided to befriend them and hang out with them too. Well they realized I wasn't a snob and that my husband just wanted to keep me away from them since they where all nut-jobs... hehe. Anyway, one of his friends started saying things that where untrue to him and things that where untrue to me... we where also dating for 2 years at that time - he was meddling big time. He wanted us to break up so he could have a chance and yes he was also dating someone... the thing is my husband and I talked about everything and compared notes... we also agreed not to have anything to do with him and reported to each other. Fact is you have a special relationship with Emma and need to keep the communication lines open and discuss how you feel about it and about the other girl who is meddling trying to break you guys up... choose to exclude this other girl AT ALL TIMES and discuss that with Emma. I am sure she is feeling insecure so say some nice things to her and treat her out.

[BlueTit]

Thank you :)