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    NervousOne Posts: 18, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 28, 2009, 03:20 PM
    I knew I wasn't CRAZY!
    I just busted him red handed cheating!! God I think I am going to die right here
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    Feb 28, 2009, 03:23 PM
    One of his "subbies" sent me a transcript of his new screen name , and she apparently found out about me. He was telling her that he had someone on AOL that he was planning to meet soon... and that he think he has seen her in a chat room before and he named the ones he frequented "Iluvmucholdermen and Submissive women" He won't answer his phone now... God I am so pathetic.


    ANyone want some diamonds?? I have some I am giving away
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    Feb 28, 2009, 03:33 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by NervousOne View Post
    one of his "subbies" sent me a transcript of his new screen name , and she apparently found out about me. He was telling her that he had someone on AOL that he was planning to meet soon...and that he think he has seen her in a chat room before and he named the ones he frequented "Iluvmucholdermen and Submissive women" He wont answer his phone now ...God I am so pathetic.


    ANyone want some diamonds???? I have some I am giving away

    So, I presume this is your boyfriend, and both of you are chat in datings sites? Or were you suspicious, and found out by accident?

    I hope you get a chance to speak with him, and come back again with more detail.
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    Feb 28, 2009, 05:34 PM

    Yes... he is my boyfriend... I'm sorry for the crazy post... I posted a few days ago about this situation... I have been suspicious... its all in the other post...

    He called and denied it... said that he ahs never cheated BSBSBS maybe not physically... but he was sure ready to get with this girl... I have it all in writing.. right in front of my eyes. His excuse for telling her that he was meeting someone from AOL was to get rid of her... but then continued to chat with her and then said "chat anytime wink" in closing... my phone is ringing off the hook right now... he won't stop calling... I just can't believe he would do this to me..
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    Feb 28, 2009, 05:36 PM
    He told her " I am planning to meet someone from AOL , But I have been burned before so I am a little scared to do it....and that he decided to give it a chance and not hold past mistakes from others against new people... and the girl asked him what happened in the past .. his answer was " she was lying to me"!! Im like are you flippin kidding me!?
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    Feb 28, 2009, 05:50 PM

    Sorry you are in this position... wishing you much strength as you work your way through it all.
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    Mar 1, 2009, 03:35 PM

    He confessed.. he cried and said he was sorry and that maybe he was the one with the problems.. that he had never met this other girl and that he did care for her , but he cares for me too... she knows everything now.. and he says she keeps deleting his email...

    I feel a little better now that he explained everything to me.. I still love him... it still hurts so much..
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    Mar 2, 2009, 10:01 AM
    Please do not marry this man! He tried to make you think you were just jealous and overly suspicious, etc. etc. but all the while you had good reason. Don't fall for any of his excuses. Seriously, he will do this again.
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    Mar 2, 2009, 10:08 AM

    Follow your frist mind always. It's a little voice the truly loves you, has your best interest at heart and wouldn't dream of stirring you wrong. Don't subscribe to this life... be strong.

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