[xiaocake]

My boyfriend and I have dated for several months, but he never actively let me know he wants to be physical. But he always told me he loves me. And he does care about me. I asked him why he never had desire. He told me he didn't want me think he doesn't love me and he has other purpose. He said he doesn't want to force me, but if I want, he will do it.
I just think he is very calm. I kind of feel that he want to have sex only because I want it, not because he wants to make love to me.

[Clough]

Hi, xiaocake!

A man that wants to wait for awhile before having sex is certainly something that's very honorable and admirable.

Do you think that he's the one with whom you will want to spend the rest of your life?

Hopefully, others will also be along to address your question.

Thanks!

[Choux]

There could be several things going on here... all good, in my opinion.

Perhaps, depending on your ages, he is looking for a wife not a girlfriend. He wants to get to know you without the distraction of sex. Some woman only have sex to offer, not other good personal qualities, and it takes more than just sex to make a good marriage.

He may be more mature than you are.

Best wishes to you, :)

[Synnen]

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