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    Jan 31, 2009, 07:52 PM
    Trying to get over your boysfriends first love.
    How can you get over your boyfriends first love? She died but he keeps referring to her as miss perfect, and how much she saved his life. I don't know what To do, or how to cope with this.

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    Feb 1, 2009, 06:23 AM

    You back off, and let him grieve in his own way, and heal in his own time. Being in a relationship with a person who is mourning, can be quite frustrating.
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    Feb 1, 2009, 06:32 AM

    I agree with Tal, and back off, let him go through his grieving process and just be there for him. Maybe he isn't even ready for a relationship now, even though you are boyfriend and girlfriend. He sounds like he is comparing. I would stay off the subject, and keep things light, and then see in time what happens with the two of you.
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    Feb 1, 2009, 06:42 AM
    Im sorry this mite b incesitive but he shouldn't have a girlfriend if he is still grieving. I dissagree with you guys. If he keeps comparing her to the woman than that's not fair, imagine how this girl feels. Miss perfect. Im sure u are miss perfect he just can't see that. It is insensitive of him to say this as u have feelings too. If he really loves you hell drop it. There's a lot of people in the world and that girl was his soul mate?
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