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    barbiechick123 Posts: 317, Reputation: 25
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    Jan 30, 2009, 11:42 PM
    Something getting WAY out of hand!
    So, in a previous post... My former good friend was cutting herself and I told her parents, than she got mad at me and never spoke to me again... NOW, out of nowhere she has this deep hatred towards me (probably cause of what happened before and I don't like her BFF) so on her AIM buddy info she wrote something VERY rude about me that described my name on Urban dictionary.. what do I have to do to get her off my back, I never say things about her to people that would tell her, I never even speak to her anymore, why is she doing this?
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    Jan 31, 2009, 02:24 AM
    Hi, barbiechick123!

    It sounds to me that you're former good friend has some real insecurity and power issues, as well as maybe some other ones.

    If she's writing or saying things to others that might be negative about you, I'm sure that others who know you and also her will quickly be able to tell by the way that she is that she's "off the wall" and probably someone who they should avoid.

    As people recognize her for who and what she is, and subsequently ignore her, then she'll most likely go elsewhere and/or hopefully realize that what she's doing isn't doing her any good.

    My suggestion is to ignore her, especially, if you've already tried to help her and gotten such negative responses from her.

    The people that know you, know you and also the truth!

    Hopefully, others will be along to address your post.

    Thanks!
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    Jan 31, 2009, 10:56 AM

    Thank you so much, Clough.. I was really thinking on getting back at her, but that would be no good. And your right, my real friends know she's pathetic :).

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