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    Romefalls19 Posts: 4,739, Reputation: 1130
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    #61

    Jan 26, 2009, 06:02 AM

    First, don't respond to his message

    Second, be polite and respectful. Say hello and a few words then say you must go as you had a prior engagement.
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    #62

    Jan 26, 2009, 11:36 PM

    I don't understand why I shouldn't respond to his message...

    Help, anyone?

    Also, I really want to see him...
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    #63

    Jan 27, 2009, 05:31 AM
    You don't know what you want do you??

    Your choices, move on and leave him alone, or see about getting back together.

    What do you want to happen?

    I want to tease and flirt with him to see if there is anything there. By "anything there," I mean any vestiges of the feelings he once had for me, so that I could fan them into flames of desire/love again. Whenever I find a guy I like, I clam up. This is a problem of mine.
    This is a game you need to drop! Be yourself.
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    #64

    Jan 27, 2009, 05:48 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by teastalk View Post
    I was away from my computer and I received a message from him once again. He was JUST checking on me to see how I was and that it was the second time he tried. So how do I respond or do I??

    Another question--campus is not that large, if I should stumble across him or know for sure that we will be attending an upcoming meeting---do I linger, walk in the opposite direction, ignore him, make sure I don't make eye contact, or get the information I went there for and leave quickly.
    You are thinking way too much about this. If he says hi say hi, if he doesn't don't.You don't have to have it all mapped out
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    #65

    Jan 28, 2009, 07:24 PM

    I want to see him. But it appears that I shouldn't contact him until I view us as nothing more than friends, even though I still want to get back together.

    Is this right?
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    #66

    Jan 28, 2009, 08:11 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teastalk View Post
    I want to see him. But it appears that I shouldn't contact him until I view us as nothing more than friends, even though I still want to get back together.

    Is this right?


    Post #66 - yes, that's right.
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    #67

    Jan 28, 2009, 08:19 PM

    Do you really think you can get him back with some cheap flirting a and teasing??
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    #68

    Feb 14, 2009, 12:05 AM

    I think I got trompled.

    Seems like maybe I had no control. I'm not saying I want to be controlling, I'm just saying that I maybe was controlled.

    Unfortunately, I'm still wondering what happened.
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    Feb 14, 2009, 06:32 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by teastalk View Post
    I think I got trompled.

    Seems like maybe I had no control. I'm not saying I want to be controlling, I'm just saying that I maybe was controlled.

    Unfortunately, I'm still wondering what happened.


    I think if you can't figure it out after over 60 answers maybe there is no answer you can accept.
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