[sadeye]

Guys I really need your help!! I was together with this girl for almost two years. We had our ups and down but we both feelt how special our relationship was. It was real and unique love. The problem is that we are two girls and my ex is from Iran. Her family and friends thought we were just friends but at the end they started to suspect what we really were! She broke up with me, saying she still loved me, still saw me as the women of her live, her one and only but couldn't be in a relationship because of her situation. I got heartborken still am. Im going on antidepressive but still feeling like . Feels like she is the love of my live, I can't move on. Everything happened almost three month ago. She's been emailing, texting calling.. saying things you don't say if you don't want to lead someone on but last week I heard that she has been messing around with an Iraki woman who I absolutely disslike. I always said she was the reason for her to break up with me but she claim that it wasn't. Now she loves her. I don't know what to do. I know I was her first love, her first girl and first relationship. Im going crazy.. What the damn should I do? Stick or try to erase her??

[liz28]

Free yourself from this girl letting go and stop communication with her. Don't open any texts or email from her. Don't call or accept any calls from her because would only stop you from getting over her.

Don't focus on who she is dating because you've no control over her life but you have control ove yours. So focus on your life.

You live and learn because life is a learning process. Your going fall in love with someone but sometimes the one you love isn't right for you. Your going get hurt by love but when you do you pick yourself back up and pull yourself together. What don't kill you only makes you stronger and getting over someone is mind over matter. Why stay stuck over someone while that person is out living their life and moving on. While your stuck taking pills to try to move on.

Get up and open the window to smell the fresh air. Go out and do something for yourself. Pamper yourself. Take a hobby, listen to music(no sad songs), watch a movie. But know that life moves on so move along with it.

[talaniman]

Disappear from her life, and leave her alone so you don't have to hear any more BS. She has someone else, and you need to move on.