[LittleBlackKat]

Hi, my friend got dumped by her boyfriend over a month ago. She had been dating her boyfriend for only 3 months, and they did have sex in the meantime once. However, it seemed that after they had sex everything changed. Now she acts like every guy she meets wants to date her, and she keeps throwing herself at my male friends, and whenever I try to talk to them, she'll get mad and say stuff like "Leave them alone!" or "They're mine so off!":mad:
I am getting really sick and tired of her selfish attitude, just the other day I was talking with a long time friend and she got jealous and told me "He was flirting with me before you came along so go away!":( She acts like she's the hottest girl in the world and it is driving me crazy.:mad: Especially when all my male friends are saying nasty things behind her back. They all think she acts like a slut, and I personally think she is as well.
How can I better deal with her selfish attitude? What can I say to her when she says "I am a sexy princess" and all that immature stuff? Please help.:confused:

[JSingle911]

This is a difficult situation. You should probably be prepared to lose this friend no matter what happens, because sometimes when people change, they have made their decision, and anything you do to try to help them will be seen as you trying to control them. In this situation, I would gather a couple of her close friends (so it's not just coming from you) and sit down with her to have a talk. I would explain that due to the way she's acting, you are very concerned that she could be hurt, not only emotionally, but physically as well. If she is perceived as acting like a slut, there may be someone out there who (to put it delicately) might try to force her to do something she doesn't want to. She may listen and respond favorably to what you have to say, and she may not. At least you tried to help her improve her image. Sometimes being a good friend means trying to help them in the way you feel is best, even if you wind up losing them.