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    Jan 12, 2009, 11:02 AM

    My feeling is if you call enough women and have the same conversation sooner or later one will say, "OK." Same with staggering up to a woman at a bar and saying, "Want to X?" It must pay off because men keep doing it. Ten probably slap you; the eleventh is OK with it.

    In retrospect he must have been drunk (or high) because we are business associates of the same law firm and it was a business get together and I already had said, "Thanks but no thanks."
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    Jan 12, 2009, 11:21 AM

    Just to clarify here: My feet are extraordinarily ticklish.

    No foot play for me!
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    Jan 12, 2009, 11:27 AM
    Yeah, I've known guys who could walk up to women cold and ask them out with little more than them making an introduction themselves. They didn't take rejection personally, and they got dates enough times that it was a fruitful method of meeting women. Me I never had the balls to do that so casually. Same with walkign up to women and asking them to go to bed with them... believe it or not it worked well enough that they kept doing it. Me? I've never once did that with a woman I didn't know. Its just not my style.

    Personally I don't understand the foot fetish thing. But then it takes all types of people to make the world go around they say.

    For me the feet are about the least eroginous area for several reasons. But I can't find fault with those who are turned on by them.
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    Jan 12, 2009, 01:29 PM
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    starbuck8 agrees: Oh nooo! You have to work with this man? Yikes! Wear fuzzy slippers to work! ."[/QUOTE]



    No, thank goodness! He must do medical exams for the Attorney (or something) on the personal injury cases. I just do the investigations.

    But I do like the fuzzy slippers idea -
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    Jan 12, 2009, 01:32 PM
    I wouldn't say I have a foot fetish, but a clean, soft, nicely painted toe is worth a smooch and a half. And the only way to take my lips from there is up. ;)
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    Jan 12, 2009, 01:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    My feeling is if you call enough women and have the same conversation sooner or later one will say, "OK." Same with staggering up to a woman at a bar and saying, "Want to X?" It must pay off because men keep doing it. Ten probably slap you; the eleventh is OK with it.
    I completely agree. I've never been particularly shy, and I'm enough of a modest flirt that I think I could see when a door was left open when id volley some noise her way, but I like to think I had some tact most of the time... and the only explanation I have for that extreme kind of behavior is Pavlovian/Darwinian... at some point, somewhere, they MUST have been rewarded for that behavior.

    Tho' one guy I knew... I seriously think he was just miswired.

    See, now I'm curious about the shoes. Time for an eBay bidding war?
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    Jan 12, 2009, 01:52 PM

    I just want to OWN shoes like that.

    Those shoes sound AWESOME.
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    Jan 12, 2009, 01:56 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by kp2171 View Post
    i completely agree. ive never been particularly shy, and im enough of a modest flirt that i think i could see when a door was left open when id volley some noise her way, but i like to think i had some tact most of the time... and the only explanation i have for that extreme kind of behavior is Pavlovian/Darwinian... at some point, somewhere, they MUST have been rewarded for that behavior.

    tho' one guy i knew... i seriously think he was just miswired.

    see, now im curious about the shoes. time for an ebay bidding war?
    But do you know where those shoes have been? As the saying goes... you'll never know until you've walked a mile in my shoes! :eek:
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    Jan 12, 2009, 02:02 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    No, thank goodness! He must do medical exams for the Attorney (or something) on the personal injury cases. I just do the investigations.

    But I do like the fuzzy slippers idea -
    Get yourself a pr. Of those really big Garfield or Animal slippers! If he goes for those, then you need to call the wack job police! :p:D

    EDIT::(Oops! Once again, no pun intended!. foot in mouth disease! Lol)

    EDIT:: (And... I did it again... geez... hahahaha!. I'll just stop now!)
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    Jan 12, 2009, 02:18 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by starbuck8 View Post
    But do you know where those shoes have been? As the saying goes...you'll never know until you've walked a mile in my shoes! :eek:
    Hmmm... while I like a nice pair of shoes, are there panties to match?

    That could change everything.
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    Jan 12, 2009, 02:24 PM

    I'm sure there would be a matching panty and bra set included! Now the garters may come separate. Or, you could go for the full meal deal, and get the whole one piece suit! Ebay is going to be buzzin!
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    Jan 13, 2009, 06:03 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by starbuck8 View Post
    Get yourself a pr. of those really big Garfield or Animal slippers! If he goes for those, then you need to call the wack job police! :p:D

    EDIT::(Oops!! Once again, no pun intended!...foot in mouth disease! lol)

    EDIT:: (And...I did it again...geez...hahahaha!...I'll just stop now!)
    THere actually are people into that sort of thing. Not the slippers, but the full size animal costumes. Like stuffed animals.

    Called Plushies. Now I REALLY don't understand that one.
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    Jan 13, 2009, 06:17 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    THere actually are people into that sort of thing. Not the slippers, but the full size animal costumes. Like stuffed animals.

    Called Plushies. Now I REALLY don't understand that one.

    They actually hold conventions, too - and it's not a costume thing, it's a fetish with people wearing animal costumes... well, you get the idea.
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    Jan 13, 2009, 06:54 AM
    I had seen references about it over the years but never really figured out what it was. Then CSI had an episode heavily on the topic then I began to figure out what it was.

    Doesn't mean I can understand it, I can't, but then I can't understand Pedophilia, corprophilia, obsessions with golden showers and a host of other ones either.
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    Jan 13, 2009, 06:57 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    corprophilia,
    Hello smoothy:

    What's that one? Is it when you get screwed at work? I've had that.

    excon
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    Jan 13, 2009, 07:01 AM
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    Hello smoothy:

    What's that one? Is it when you get screwed at work? I've had that.

    excon
    Yeah.. the powertrip thing, people that get off screwing their underlings repeatedly over long periods without actually touching them...



    But seriously...



    Its people that like to play with poo. :eek: Its possible I misspelled it. Corporophillia, cororophillia, something like that.
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    Jan 13, 2009, 07:01 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    They actually hold conventions, too - and it's not a costume thing, it's a fetish with people wearing animal costumes .... well, you get the idea.
    Okay Judy... Ix-nay on the animal slippers! Get some protection, and wear rubber boots! Is there a rubber fetish? :eek:
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    Jan 13, 2009, 07:05 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by starbuck8 View Post
    Okay Judy...Ix-nay on the animal slippers! Get some protection, and wear rubber boots! Is there a rubber fetish? :eek:
    Oh there most definitely is... not sure what its called but its latex not so so much rubber. Lots of videos in the porn shops cater to that crowd.
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    Jan 13, 2009, 07:07 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    Oh there most definately is......not sure what its called but its latex not so so much rubber. Lots of videos in the porn shops cater to that crowd.
    Well, at least she won't get hit by lightening! One less thing to worry about!
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    Jan 13, 2009, 07:52 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    Oh there most definately is......not sure what its called but its latex not so so much rubber. Lots of videos in the porn shops cater to that crowd.
    And you know this how?

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