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    grapple001 Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 29, 2008, 08:38 PM
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    So I've been seeing this guy for several months now, and we just started sleeping together. I've only been with one other guy and the sex in that relationship was always really amazing. But when I'm sleeping with this new guy, its not bad, just painful, and when I ask him to stop or slow down, it seems like it turns him on more and he goes even harder... afterwards I said something to him and he sort of just laughed it off. I really like this guy and this has been the only issue I've had with him, ever. I don't know if its just we don't have the same style or what, but I definitely don't want to have sex that way again. What should I do?
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    Dec 29, 2008, 08:58 PM

    Tell him you don't like it, even he laughs it off or persists, then leave.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Dec 29, 2008, 10:42 PM

    I really like this guy and this has been the only issue I've had with him, ever. I don't know if its just we don't have the same style or what, but I definitely don't want to have sex that way again. What should I do?
    This is a huge issue, as he is not considerate of you at all is it and to laugh your concerns off like its nothing... leave now, or he will hurt you in many ways, and not just in bed either.

    You have already had all the fair warning you need.
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    liz28 Posts: 4,662, Reputation: 1034
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    Dec 30, 2008, 12:53 AM

    Leave, this guy likes to cause you papn during and he has the nerve to laugh about after you confront him. Again Leave!

    This guy doesn't care about you. He only likes having painful sex with you.

    Find someone else that's going treat you right in every aspect. Don't settle! Next thing you know he'll start bringing whips to bed.

    Your good because after the first sexual encounter there wouldn't have been a second, third, or fourth time. He's lucky he still have his balls.
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    Dec 30, 2008, 07:32 AM

    Leave now... This type of behavior is only going to get worse.

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