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bertcumez20 · Dec 29, 2008, 10:42 AM

This is my story..
I want to know how people think about my situation. And also help try to figure out this puzzle.
I'm a girl... in love.. maybe, I'm not sure. The problem is that I like this guy. He also likes me. We have an age difference of ten years. He's older than me. We get along pretty well. These last days we talk more less. We go both at the same school. We had like this whole week of exams. I know he's busy, he wants time to study. I'm a girl of attention. If I don't get sms or calls, I probably freak out. I'm close with my dad. He knows that we go prett well with each other. His problem is he thinks he has another girl. Me and the guy we are in a slow pace.. no rushing... he's taking his time to get to know me... I have noticed that he is very complicated guy.. We've been friends for 2 months.. we've been flirting with eacht other for 2 months too. Flirting just with words, play with our hands... nothing like kissing with each other. So in total 4 months knowing each other.. my father finds it awekward that he hasn't kissed me yet. On christmas day he haven't come to my house... because he's busy with family... big family... so I taught wel don't wry because he's busy... I'm not going to overreact about that.. everyone needs their time with their family... so whatever... so my father thinks he has another girl... and that the guy is puttin me on "hold". What do you think?

mrsbbew · Dec 29, 2008, 10:50 AM

Well first of all, I notice that you stated he is older than you so how old are you? The will be one of the beneficial factors. And two, you need to reexamine when you say he likes you. I will finish answering your question once I get more details.

bertcumez20 · Dec 29, 2008, 10:57 AM

All right I'm almost 20 and he's 30. That he likes me... well he told me.. that I'm a fun girl to be around.. and said straight in my face that I like you... so right now I'm just confused that's it... I don't know what to think or to do.

liz28 · Dec 29, 2008, 10:58 AM

Flirting doesn't mean that two of you are together.

It doesn't sound like you love him or he loves you but, as you stated, your have a liking for one another.

It sounds like the two of you are just friends and your are getting to know each other. It might go some place or it might not so don't put your eggs in one basket.

liz28 · Dec 29, 2008, 11:07 AM

Oh yeah, to answer your question "does he have another girl", only he knows. He might or might not. Just note that the two of you aren't in a committed relationship so if anything your might be dating and when your dating you're allowed to date more than one person.

You stated that you're a needy person and your concern because he calls and text you less and this is the problem. You might have gotten used to his calls, texts but he doesn't owe you any. Oh, don't forget you can always gave him a call to see how he's doing.

talaniman · Dec 30, 2008, 10:12 AM

Dad needs to stay out of your business, as he is prejudiced to you.

Its only been 2 months of dating, so continue to go slow, and have fun getting to know each other, but its way to soon to put all your eggs in his basket. Your free to date others, so is he, so tell dad to chill.

Glad you recognize that side of you that will go off if your expectations aren't met (your a spoiled daddy's girl after all) but know its cute to dad, but no self respecting man puts up with that crap, so control yourself, and let things develop at there own pace.

PurpLePassion · Dec 30, 2008, 10:27 AM

Listen, just because a guy tells you "I LIKE YOU" to your face DOES NOT mean HE DOES!! Don't fall for his BS. Find someone who won't ignore you... guy isn't worth it.

Either that or TALK to him about it... communication is key. Just be cautious because he could just lie to your face.