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    Dec 19, 2008, 12:28 PM
    I like him, he loves her. What should I do?
    Okay, I'm kate and I am 16. So I like this guy, a lot.
    But he is in love with my ex-friend.
    He says he likes me, but I don't know if he is just trying to make her jealous or if he really does like me.
    I don't know what to do because I really like this guy.:confused:
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    Dec 19, 2008, 12:38 PM

    You are too young to get involved in this kind of stuff. If he says he loves another girl, then leave him be and get on with your life. Plenty of guys out there that aren't "in love" with someone else. Besides, I wouldn't rush into a relationship at your age anyway. You will be fine, and you don't need him!
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    Dec 19, 2008, 01:07 PM

    I agree if he has his interests on somebody else it is not worth the competing. Wait for a right time if you are going to date him. In the meantime you need to get him out of your mind for now.
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    Dec 19, 2008, 01:08 PM

    If he's trying to make her jealous, he is playing games with her heart. You don't want a boy that plays games...

    If he does like her, then leave him alone - don't go for guys that are involved with other girls. Its never worth it. That's a life lesson that is Really good to learn early in life.

    If he likes you, then he will come to his senses and be with you. Don't worry, hon. :) Life is too short to worry. Just be yourself.
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    Dec 19, 2008, 01:10 PM

    I am a guy, so I will let you in on a little secret... as a girl, don't EVER chase a guy... very few of us are worth it, and most of the time, we end up chasing you.
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    Dec 21, 2008, 02:37 PM

    I would have to agree. I have been in this situation before and it is so hard. And its always easier to tell someone else what they should rather than doing it yourself. But you are far too young for the kind of pain this could lead to. Leave him alone!
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    Dec 21, 2008, 03:18 PM

    Leave him alone, as he has already said where his interests are, and its not with you.
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    Dec 21, 2008, 03:58 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by kctiger View Post
    I am a guy, so I will let you in on a little secret...as a girl, don't EVER chase a guy...very few of us are worth it, and most of the time, we end up chasing you.
    LOL I love that!

    yeah you should just find a way to move on! Like the others said; his interest lies with someone else... and if he wants to chase an x girlfriend of his, let him... for your sake, nothing good can come from this anyway... he likes her, you like him, she's his x... its all too complicated... is it worth your precious time? NOPE! :) you can spend it other wise. And besides you're 16 you have plenty of time and you'll have plenty of chances to fall in love with someone who is not chasing their x. Even someone who'll be\fall in love with you...

    :cool:
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