[Solja247]

Hey guys I am new here, but I have a question.

Well I like this girl I have known her for about 9months now. Earlier on this year she liked me and I liked her but just some things came up and we didn't go out. This last month or so I have been getting on with her well, at first I did not think of her anymore than a friend but then I changed my mind. I spend a lot of time with mostly on saturdays. However since for me it is the summer holidays we are planning to do a lot of things. For e.g.. Go to the movies on Tuesday, then on Thursday go to the beach, Saturday I am doing a play with her and then Tuesday I am going over to her house.

3 weeks ago I asked her out. But I do not know if she is just playing hard to get or if she just wants to be friends. Nearly everyone thinks that we like each other, she tells me she likes someone atm but I do not know what to do. The other problem is that she used to be full up front with who she liked but now she is not after a bad experince so she has completely changed dating game plan.

Like she won't call or text (when I call we talk for about an hour) msn we don't talk much but in real life we talk a lot...

I don't know if she is just playing hard to get or just likes me as a friend??

[N0help4u]

Why not just be her friend and not try to figure it out and see where it goes.

[timtim-awesim]

It doesn't sound like you'd be heartbroken if she didn't like you, so I'd give her space. You might just make her feel guilty for not going out with you, especially if you're a "nice guy".

That is probably why she isn't open with you anymore, she doesn't want to hurt your feelings

[Solja247]

Thanks for the advice, yeah I can't be bothered anymore... lol.

[Solja247]

I have liked her for a while but its not really going any where...