[jw1975]

Well I've dated this girl the last week or so, she started being quite forward texting me everyday asking how's my day going an stuff, this was before we actually dated, which I found a bit forward but thought nothing of it. This girl also suffers from depression which she told me on the first date which wa a bit of a shock but its not a big deal to me. The date itself was great she admitted feeling very comfy with me an asked me at the end of the night if I wanted to see her again. She kept up the texting the next day and wanted to see me the day after this which I went along with. Also she told me she had told her friends and family about how great I was. Now this is where it gets strange whist out with a friend she seen her ex who she split with 9 months ago with the girl he cheated on her with and she wents nuts, she told me this. Now the next date she is texting me all day saying that she's really looking forward to it but she didn't get much sleep so she's going to catch up on some. She later turns up at my house and proclaims that's she's in a bad mood and told her dad to kiss her lol. Well we went out anyway and she was clearly in some sort of a mood, at the end of the movie she apologised for not being her usual bubbly self and would I mind if she went home, so I just said no problem see you soon. We had a brief chat and kiss in her car, then she went. She texted apologising again which I replied saying don't wirry about. But w earranged to meet up later in the week which she said would be good. So I left it a few days then text her asking how she's doing an such and got a reply of I'm great just really tired, and that's all I've had since, she's great but really tired. No mention of going out from her at all, now on my birthday which was a few days later she sends me a message on a social networking site saying sorry its late happy birthday, I've broken my phone. Now from this I thought oh well a polite she's no longer interested. Im just wondering if she is not interested or playing hard to get, sorry its such a long read but any input would be great.

[NItEMArE129]

You're reading waaaayyyyy too deep. It's possible she just had a bad week... It happens to me all the time lol. And her phone breaking is totally possible to. It sounds to me that you're one of those guys that jumps to huge conclusions all the time (like me). So first of all, don't freak out too much. Ask if you guys are still on for the date and then go from there. You'll never know unless you ask her...

[jw1975]

Thanks, yeah I do at times lol, but when I last text her asking how she's doing I also asked her if she's still up for going out to which I got no reply, just a few days later got the happy birthday and broken phone message but no answer about going out. So I taken it that she wasn't interested anymore