[Alty]

Yes I've had men approach me, but I've never been one to sit around and wait. Back when I was single (many, many, many years ago;)) I had no problem going up to a guy and talking to him, still don't, I'm a notorious flirt. ;)

It's just as hard for women, maybe even more. How would you feel if you had 5-6 guys coming up to you, buying you drinks, asking for your number, sometimes harassing you? It can go downhill pretty quick.

of course nothing to do with violence...

Phew, you had me worried there for a minute. ;)

[roxypox]

Yes I've had men approach me, but I've never been one to sit around and wait. Back when I was single (many, many, many years ago;)) I had no problem going up to a guy and talking to him, still don't, I'm a notorious flirt. ;)

So true. I'm a notorious flirt as well, even when I don't mean to be. My best friend showered me with compliments yesterday (yes to a blushing point)

I have no problems talking with guys, but it still is hard.... especially if you like someone, like: like, like. :p
It's just as hard for women, maybe even more. How would you feel if you had 5-6 guys coming up to you, buying you drinks, asking for your number, sometimes harrassing you? It can go downhill pretty quick.

Hehe that can be very hard for a woman!

[Alty]

hehe that can be very hard for a woman!

We do have it tough, don't we? ;)

[roxypox]

Yes we do ;)

[ka1111]

Aκόμα ρε φίλε?.

I have a question for you : are you a man?
STEP 1 : Please take a moment to check between your legs.You are supposed to find stuff hanging there...

Now,I don't mean to be harsh,no wait,I do,but aren't you a poster boy for the turning-gay-next-week club?

LISTEN

A MΑN LEADS,doesn't follow
A MAN ACTS,doesn't re-act
A MAN WANTS,but doesn't need sh!t
A MAN MOVES THE F.. K ON WITH HIS LIFE
A MAN CAN FACE THE TRUTH
A MAN IS IN CONTROL OF HIS FEELINGS,not the other way around
A MAN TAKES RESPONSIBILITY AND DOESN'T BLAME LUCK,SOCIETY,THE GOVERNMENT,GOD,HIS DOG OR ANYONE
ELSE FOR HIS OWN F.. K UPS


.. but if you were a man,you wouldn't be in this f-ing mess in the first place,you would be too busy having sex.

But hey,maybe you're on to something here,maybe you're just a closet gay case,maybe you're just envious of her because she has a boyfriend and you don't.

Which brings us back to STEP 1..

[Alty]

Aκόμα ρε φίλε?..

I have a question for you : are you a man?
STEP 1 : Please take a moment to check between your legs.You are supposed to find stuff hanging there...

Now,i don't mean to be harsh,no wait,I do,but aren't you a poster boy for the turning-gay-next-week club?

LISTEN

A MΑN LEADS,doesn't follow
A MAN ACTS,doesn't re-act
A MAN WANTS,but doesn't need sh!t
A MAN MOVES THE F..K ON WITH HIS LIFE
A MAN CAN FACE THE TRUTH
A MAN IS IN CONTROL OF HIS FEELINGS,not the other way around
A MAN TAKES RESPONSIBILITY AND DOESN'T BLAME LUCK,SOCIETY,THE GOVERNMENT,GOD,HIS DOG OR ANYONE
ELSE FOR HIS OWN F..K UPS


..but if you were a man,you wouldn't be in this f-ing mess in the first place,you would be too busy having sex.

But hey,maybe you're on to something here,maybe you're just a closet gay case,maybe you're just envious of her because she has a boyfriend and you don't.

Which brings us back to STEP 1..

Wow, and I don't mean that in a good way.

What they heck?

What you just described isn't the work of a man, but the work of a little boy. Grow up!

[ka1111]

Wow, and I don't mean that in a good way.

What they heck?

What you just described isn't the work of a man, but the work of a little boy. Grow up!

No,actually,that is what a man is supposed to be like and what every woman will respond to,regardless of all the "I just want a nice,sensitive guy" BS women say.

And I don't blame anyone here,it's just nature.

How is taking responsibility for your life boyish exactly?
And anyway,what this guy needs is a slap in the face to wake him up from all the disillusion and the self pity hole he dug himself in.Patronizing won't help.Enough with the hypocrisy.

[Romefalls19]

No maybe a GIRL responds to that "manly" behavior but a WOMAN responds to a respectable, responsible well mannered MAN!

Since when is it unmanly to show emotion? This isn't the movies where guys can just hide their emotions. What you describe is a heartless person, someone who can give everything they have to a relationship and have it end and feel nothing, that's the true BS! I have no shame is saying that when my last relationship ended, I shed some tears, because it was the ending of part of my life and I knew that. We are not always totally to blame for it falling about, they take two to fall apart in most cases.