[fmxracer986]

Its been about a month my girl friend and I broke up and I moved on, I love being in a relationship and she did nothing but hurt me and I did everything possible for her, were and how do I meat to people? I was with her for two years? Haha I have had times were I felt I could deffinately get another girl, but then times were I feel like its hopeless, I know at the mall there was a girl I talked to being friends because I had a girl friend, nothing was going on, and she was really nice and I know I could have got her number, too bad I didn't see her now, any tips on what to do, Finding someone online I don't think reallyl works? Thank you I appreciate it!

[450donn]

At this point in your life maybe you need to concentrate on you! I do not mean that in a selfish way, but simply that after a two year relationship you are probably not ready to start dating again. Now would be a great time to reconnect with you and what you like doing. \Focus on your studies if you are in school, or on your career your hobbies. Now would be an excellent time to start a new hobby.

[roxypox]

It might be a good idea to focus on you and kind of figure out what you like to do and if you already know you might want to find out what sort of a girl you like. I think internet dating can work. Two of my best friends have met their boyfs through the internet. Or through friends i.e. parties, bbqs, blinddates etc.

I'm totlay with you on the relationship thing. Haha. I was in a relationship for over 5 years, when it broke down I left him and after like 6 weeks I jumped into a new one. Now its over and I'm so used to beingin a relationship that I'm kind of pining for a new one, but like 450donn said you might not be ready for a new one yet... haha I know I'm not, but of course all people are different. After the 5 year relationship I was ready, now I'm not.

[blfabila5]

Move on unless you like being hurt. You say that you like being in a relationship so go find another girl. Don't hold back and waste your time on waiting for her because life is short. Don't be so desperate to find a girl either. Take time to find out what you really want in a girl and go looking for her. Don't go only by her looks either and get to know her before you actually have a relationship. So date around there isn't nothing wrong with that.

[kctiger]

Seems to me like you want a relationship to make yourself feel better. I don't think you care about yourself enough to even be in a relationship right now, and you still have emotional baggage left over from your last girlfriend. You don't need to be dating anyone and you don't need a girlfriend to feel good about yourself. The only person you need is you.. so start to work on yourself and good things will happen. It isn't anything you should be worried about.

[ZoeMarie]

Yeah, I don't know if you're ready for another relationship or not. A month isn't very long to be single. I would personally spend time with some friends, go out and have fun. You'll probably find someone when you're not even looking. That's how it always was for me.

And as far as meeting people online, it's not always a bad thing. I met my husband on myspace, my brother met his girlfriend on eharmony. My brother-in-law met his fiancée on match.com and my sister-in-law met her boyfriend on myspace. I think things have changed as far meeting people online. It's becoming more common.

[kctiger]

Wow. You have a practical cyber family! LOL. I am actually a member on both eharmony and match.com. I don't expect to find anything on there, I just do it for fun.

[ZoeMarie]

Lol. I know right. Well my husband's sister and I weren't on there to meet anyone- it just worked out that way. My brother and my husband's brother were obviously on the sites to meet someone.