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    watauga21 Posts: 11, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 20, 2008, 09:34 AM
    I like a friend but don't know how to tell her
    I have a friend that has a boy friend and see does not trust him she always ask me to come over when know no is home she play around like she wants to be more than friends but she will not let me get closer to her. I do like her a lot but I don't know how to tell her
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    kctiger Posts: 3,653, Reputation: 1319
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    Nov 20, 2008, 09:39 AM

    She sounds like a stand up girl... If she is messing around with you while she has a boyfriend, what makes you think that if you two get together she wouldn't behave like that with someone else?
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    Nov 20, 2008, 09:51 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by kctiger View Post
    She sounds like a stand up girl...If she is messing around with you while she has a boyfriend, what makes you think that if you two get together she wouldn't behave like that with someone else?
    She said she want to leave him but does not want to hurt him
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    Nov 20, 2008, 10:04 AM

    She is hurting him now by messing around with you. I don't know the details of the situation, but that is just poor character. Tell her to either leave him or you are gone. Don't mess with someone else's girlfriend. That shows poor character for you as well... And the "I don't want to hurt him" line is merely an excuse.
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    Nov 20, 2008, 10:31 AM

    Fool.. don't be traped by her.

    She does not want to elave him if she did. She would have already

    She is playing the FILD and she is testing the waters.. once she finds something better she will move on
    Trust me she will do the same to you.. if she does the same to her boyfriend

    Forget about this girl

    She plays games and is un trust worthy

    Regards
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    Nov 20, 2008, 10:35 AM

    Funny the girl doesn't trust her man while she is behaving this way with you. Sounds like guilt to me.

    Leave her alone, she is disrespecting herself, her boyfriend, and you.
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    Nov 20, 2008, 10:37 AM

    I agree with everyone here. If she wanted to be with you, she wouldn't still be with him. And if she did break up with him for you, could you trust her not to invite guys over to the house when you're not home? I would get out of this situation if I were you.
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    Nov 23, 2008, 10:55 AM

    Your like a trusted girlfriend someone she can talk to but, that's as far as you take it.

    Why are you so available to her? That has to change, as we see your falling in to deep.
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