[pld1164]

My Boyfriend is 50 years old and I am 44, we have been dating for almost 2 years now, he has a lot of female friends that calls him on the phone and now he just stop having sex with me, we use to have it once a week but now it's nothing, I found a condom in his pocket and he said some young guys that work with him gave it to him because a lot of females has been looking at him, but when I confronted him and ask him is he having sex with someone else he said know, so I told him I went in his pocket to get a ink pen out and I found a condom he told me I was jealous and he didn't want this relationship anymore he was tired of me accusing him of stuff. What do I do?

[Eileen1218]

I don't think it takes rocket science to know the answer. Personally I wouldn't want to try to save the relationship... finding condoms and he's always talking to other girls on the phone etc. speaks for itself. He told you he is done . Don't be his door mat... Don't and allow any man (boyfriend) make a fool out of you.
I hope this will help you to know what to do.

[talaniman]

What do I do?

Dump the cheater, and get a real man.

[carmex]

Well, I tend to agree with the other folks answers here. 2 years is a long time to be with someone. If you look way down deep (in places you don't talk about at parties :) Do you believe him?

It's a little depressing to hear about these stories at ya'lls age. I would have thought all that game playing would be long since over.