Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    xFalkenx's Avatar
    xFalkenx Posts: 17, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #1

    Nov 18, 2008, 05:43 AM
    Oral sex performance guidance for the cutest girl
    Hello I'll start right off the bat that I am a 18 year old virgin because I waited till I would appreciate a relationship with another person. I Meet the most beautiful girl I have ever seen, she has been very patient with me. I am not quite ready for sex but I want to show her how much I appreciate what's she has done for me. So what I am asking here is some advice from you all on how to pleasure her orally. I really like her and want to do this for her cause she is waiting for me ( I know how sweat :P). I would really love some tips and some help getting over anxiety and how to perform for her.

    PS: Thank you for you time. (were both of age of consent btw)
    PPS: She thinks it weird that I don't find oral sex arousing, don't get me wrong its probably awesome ( >< ) But I rather pleasure her and than receive it. I am a little self conscious about my penis though I am not *circumsized* I am not worried about it I know it doesn't really matter but I can't help to feel ashamed maybe or something else IDK. ( just need to say that Lmao
    Fr_Chuck's Avatar
    Fr_Chuck Posts: 81,301, Reputation: 7692
    Expert
    		  
    #2

    Nov 18, 2008, 06:43 AM

    Best advice until you feel ready and good about it, just wait.

    If you can not talk opening to your partner about how you are feeling, and what is happening, you also need to wait. Only though open communication with your partner will things work good.
    Synnen's Avatar
    Synnen Posts: 7,927, Reputation: 2443
    Expert
    		  
    #3

    Nov 18, 2008, 07:12 AM

    If you can't talk about it, openly and frankly, with each other--there are going to be SERIOUS problems.

    And the biggest problem is this: I have never met any two women that enjoy oral sex being done the same way. I could tell you what *I* like, but she might be bored by that, or annoyed, or it may irritate her rather than turning her on. You need to ask HER what feels good to HER.

    And if she can't answer well... take your time and just enjoy learning about it together.
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

In search of the Cutest Baby Blanket Pattern Ever [ 4 Answers ]

So, I have a few friends that are pregnant. I'm looking for new patterns for baby blankets. Fast and easy patterns as I'm hoping to make 2 blankets for all three couples. Now, I know how to loom knit (not much knowing needed really), and have the appropriate loom for this pattern. Does ANYONE know...

My friend needs guidance with getting a girl. What do I say to him? [ 5 Answers ]

I have a friends that I known since grade 6 n he needs help getting a girl he depressed and lonely... what should I do I be myself and they just like my personailty... hes not me or my personality... what should I say to him... or even take him?? :confused:

Motion on visitation -oral or non oral argument? [ 2 Answers ]

I'm in New Jersey and plan to represent myself in a motion to increase visitation to allow for a midweek overnight. I'm completing the forms to do this myself and it asks if I would want a oral argument or non-oral argument in front of the judge. I would preferably want a non-oral as I think my...

Need some guidance Could I be Pregnant? [ 3 Answers ]

So I need to ask again. I am beginning to really freak myself out. I don't think I am pregnant (or perhaps I don't want to think I am). I mean I just don't feel like I am. So here's the story. End of July I had unprotected sex, he pulled out before he came. Worried that I might get pregnant I took...

Guidance [ 2 Answers ]

Can you provide me with the lists of colleges and universities in U.S.A. that offer biotechnology as major.

View more questions Search