Hello I'll start right off the bat that I am a 18 year old virgin because I waited till I would appreciate a relationship with another person. I Meet the most beautiful girl I have ever seen, she has been very patient with me. I am not quite ready for sex but I want to show her how much I appreciate what's she has done for me. So what I am asking here is some advice from you all on how to pleasure her orally. I really like her and want to do this for her cause she is waiting for me ( I know how sweat :P). I would really love some tips and some help getting over anxiety and how to perform for her.

PS: Thank you for you time. (were both of age of consent btw)
PPS: She thinks it weird that I don't find oral sex arousing, don't get me wrong its probably awesome ( >< ) But I rather pleasure her and than receive it. I am a little self conscious about my penis though I am not *circumsized* I am not worried about it I know it doesn't really matter but I can't help to feel ashamed maybe or something else IDK. ( just need to say that Lmao

Best advice until you feel ready and good about it, just wait.

If you can not talk opening to your partner about how you are feeling, and what is happening, you also need to wait. Only though open communication with your partner will things work good.

If you can't talk about it, openly and frankly, with each other--there are going to be SERIOUS problems.

And the biggest problem is this: I have never met any two women that enjoy oral sex being done the same way. I could tell you what *I* like, but she might be bored by that, or annoyed, or it may irritate her rather than turning her on. You need to ask HER what feels good to HER.

And if she can't answer well... take your time and just enjoy learning about it together.