According to the Virginia Beach Correctional Center website, the answer to your question is, "
Yes".
I can understand your frustration with, what may seem such a trivial thing to the general public, was established to enforce rules and regulations set forth by the correctional facility for inmate safety dealing with contraband on any and all levels.
The link provided below is of the facilities booklet, a copy of which is provided to inmates at the time of orientation, is intended to inform them of the rules and regulations of the Virginia Beach Correctional Center and to clearly define restrictions, privileges, programs and services which will affect their stay.
Hopefully the two of you will be reunited soon and this will no longer be an issue.
The best to you and yours.
Virginia Beach Correctional Center