Well, my first question is, what grade are you in? Because I really hate to say it, but friendships do break off as people get older... I know that in freshman year, a lot of guys lose most of their friends. I lost quite a few. And I know one of my friends thought he lost all of his friends at several points during the year.
Another year to look out for is eighth grade. I don't want to be a sexist, but a lot of my "girl" friends told me they lost a lot of their friends that year. They drifted through cliques and lost a lot of their friends. So it's natural, and maybe they'll be mature enough to realize that they're being stupid. So in the meantime, hope for the best, try to keep as much peace as possible, and try to be both their friends. It's a difficult choice about hwat to do, but it's one that a lot of people have to make.
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