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  • Nov 14, 2008, 04:16 PM
    hambeger
    A new year both best friends to ex friends
    It was a new year for me at school and two of my best friends fight for a dum thing I asked them both what happened they didn't answer my first friend won't talk to me if I talk to the other friend I really want to talk to my first friend I think she mad

    What should I do?? To make up these too how to I get them to be friends if they both don't talk I want them to be friends

    A side or together :mad::confused::eek:
  • Nov 14, 2008, 08:21 PM
    NItEMArE129

    Well, my first question is, what grade are you in? Because I really hate to say it, but friendships do break off as people get older... I know that in freshman year, a lot of guys lose most of their friends. I lost quite a few. And I know one of my friends thought he lost all of his friends at several points during the year.
    Another year to look out for is eighth grade. I don't want to be a sexist, but a lot of my "girl" friends told me they lost a lot of their friends that year. They drifted through cliques and lost a lot of their friends. So it's natural, and maybe they'll be mature enough to realize that they're being stupid. So in the meantime, hope for the best, try to keep as much peace as possible, and try to be both their friends. It's a difficult choice about hwat to do, but it's one that a lot of people have to make.
  • Nov 14, 2008, 08:49 PM
    THEpurplepeanut

    OMG I'm having the same problem. I'm in 8th grade and I have these two friends that are fighting too. Just stay out of it as much as you can if you want to keep BOTH of your friends. Some friendships don't stay so don't worry there are plenty of people you can be friends with. You can still talk to them but don't take sides because this will just hurt feelings and you might end up with both of you friends not wanting to be your friend. Good luck I hope this helps! :)

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