[chuff]

damn... im so lost, i feel ok for like an hour then ill see or hear something that reminds me of her and then ill think of all the good things we shared, then ill think of the guy shes hangin out with... how can someone fall for someone overnight? its ridiculous, one minute shes saying she loves me to death and the next shes saying she wants to break up cause of some guy she just met...

i think i forgot to mention that 2days ago i fooled around with another girl, we were broken up already for a week by the way, but she found out and freaked out on me. i told her shes the one whos the whore, shes been with 5 guys since me, granted we were broken up in that time but she cheated on me once. Why do i still have feelings for her? all signs point that i shouldnt but i love her so damn much... according to her i shouldnt have done anything with this girl because i said i loved her and that she was my world. i did say this but shes messing around with some guy too. she said its ok for her because she told me she had feelings for him... how does that make sense?

god i wish there was a way to just make everything better, its only been 1 day since the big fight but i miss her to death and can't stop thinking about what shes doing and what shes doing with this guy. its killing me :(

Reread everything I called her in the first post. Dude, this woman is a looooooooooow life. She's using you, and playing your emotions. She doesn't give a damn about you. All she cares about is screwing around with guys and keeping you on her leesh for when they dump her for being what she is. It is not often I would make a promise to a complete stranger, but from what you right of this girl, I promise you that 99% of them would be better then her.

[brokenalone]

I want to say your right but I cant. She did nothing to seem like she led me on. She was always sincere in everything. Shed help me through all the bad times and was always by my side. I just don't know what happened.

[chuff]

i want to say your right but i cant. she did nothing to seem like she led me on. she was always sincere in everything. shed help me through all the bad times and was always by my side. i just dont know what happened.

Oh my God dude! She did nothing to lead you on?? With all due respect, you have you head up you a$$ if you think this woman didn't lead you on.


SHE SCREWED ANOTHER GUY AND CAME BACK TO YOU, ONLY TO DUMP TO SCREW SOMEONE ELSE AND TOLD YOU, "IT WAS TO SEE IF WE WERE MEANT TO BE."

F-HER.

Look, I know break ups suck. They really do, and I know your feeling low right now, but you are a Marine damn it. Man up and look at the big picture. She's not loyal to you in any way and she never and I do mean never helped you when you were down. She put you down, kept you there, and then helped herself to any other guys that were available. When they weren't she came back to you because you told her you'd always be there waiting for the abuse.

[talaniman]

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...st-230790.html,

Geez get off the pity pot, and listen for a change.

Were trying to tell you nicely, and in an encouraging way to move on (again), and get her from your life, but if you continue to go down the guilt road, things will get very harsh around here, and we can't guarantee chuff's behavior. Listen to the chuffster, and your mother, and get on with your life, as you now see her true character.

My advice? With all due respect to your mom, uninvited her from your farewell parties. If she still shows up, IGNORE THE BEEYATCH!!

[chuff]

I just clicked on the link provided by Tal. Here's what Tal said back in June... IN JUNE!!

Its one thing to break up with someone, its another to keep torturing someone who has feelings.

It is now mid October, almost 4 months later, and you are allowing the torture to continue. She is torturing you, and she's doing it willingly and with no regrets. If you think this woman cares about you, you are nuts. Everyone posting here care's more about you and we've never even met you. There isn't one of us that wants to see you in pain... she could care less... scratch that, she enjoys it! She enjoys playing you. She enjoys emotionally torturing you. She gets off on it. This is truly what makes her tick, what gives her a zest for life. You can't change her. She scum. Tal, is dead on, it's one thing to get dumped, it's a complete other thing to get used, and you are getting used every time you say as much as hello to her because she knows there is something in you that needs her attention even if it's just for that.

Here's another great piece of advice from Tal

Geez get off the pity pot, and listen for a change.

You didn't believe what they told you in June. Do you now? You did the exact opposite of what was suggested 4 months ago, and you got the exact opposite response from her that you wanted. Who was right... everybody with a clear head or your ex using you again. Who you going to believe this time?

Were trying to tell you nicely, and in an encouraging way to move on (again), and get her from your life, but if you continue to go down the guilt road, things will get very harsh around here, and we can't guarantee chuff's behavior.

More posts removed for questionable language then any other in the history of this board (I don't know if that's true... but it could be!) and I have to tell you, you literally have no where to go but up from that skank. It's been a while since we've run into some one with mindset of telling her boyfriend... who's she's already dumped once, that she's going to screw someone else FOR HIS BENEFIT!!

I said this before, and I'll say it again. F*** HER

I would have to search long and hard to find somebody that low, even women who use guys regularly would never pull a line out like that. I can't imagine... I truly can't even believe that anybody could be so cold to say to someone in love with them, "Ah, I'm going get laid by this other guy....but I'm doing it to test our relationship." You'd be better off with a hooker, at least they'd be honest with you when they screw the next guy.

I hate this woman and I've never even met her... she didn't even do this to me, and I hate the b*tch. F-HER. I can't imagine how you could find anything to love or like or admire or respect or acknowledge that is remotely good about her.

As Tal said, there is no guarantee, but you can expect more of that if you keep talking to her.

Listen to the chuffster, and your mother, and get on with your life, as you now see her true character.

My advice?? With all due respect to your mom, uninvited her from your farewell parties. If she still shows up, IGNORE THE BEEYATCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm with Tal. Although sometimes he loses himself in these posts. Tone it down buddy! ;)