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Blaq lily · Oct 6, 2008, 03:12 PM

I like this guy I have been chatting with but I do not even know what he look like and the is no chance of me seeing him, do you think I am crazy?:(

ylaira · Oct 6, 2008, 03:14 PM

Is he just an imagination? Im sorry but we can't help you unless you are more specific.

Blaq lily · Oct 6, 2008, 03:19 PM

Originally Posted by ylaira

Is he just an imagination? Im sorry but we can't help you unless you are more specific.

No he is not, he live in the US and I am in South Africa and I met him here in ask me help desk but difference is we have been privatly massanging each other!

JBeaucaire · Oct 6, 2008, 03:39 PM

So what exactly is your question? Sounds like you've met an awesome new internet friend, there's nothing wrong with that.

ylaira · Oct 6, 2008, 03:41 PM

Oh well, certainly you won't see his face here in AMHD since there's no webcam application here unless you get each other's Yahoo messenger or msn.

Blaq lily · Oct 6, 2008, 03:48 PM

But it feels like if I still chat with him I will get more attached to him

spyderglass · Oct 6, 2008, 04:04 PM

No, I think you guys are cool, I doubt I will every meet any of you.
So if I'm crazy we can both be crazy:)

ylaira · Oct 6, 2008, 04:19 PM

If you think that it's a ZERO possibility that you can have this "friendship/flirting" into full blown relationship ( I know that's point of apprehension), then stop it now. I met my BF via chat and it's hard. Most relationship don't last in Long Distance Relationship.

Blaq lily · Oct 6, 2008, 04:27 PM

Wel its not that eay you must know that, I just don't understand the fact that we can't live with guys but at the same time we can't live without them, what are we suppose to do?

ylaira · Oct 6, 2008, 04:35 PM

Let's just say tha it just takes the RIGHT PERSON to live at and not all dating process is smooth.. ha ha (wink)

chuff · Oct 6, 2008, 05:08 PM

First let me say that the guy in the US she is referring to is not me.

Second, you need to realize you will never meet him so there is no point getting your hopes up over him... but that doesn't mean you should not speak to him via email.

h0llister · Oct 6, 2008, 08:52 PM

I think he will see this post.. if u met him here.. lol what do u think he will think?

JBeaucaire · Oct 6, 2008, 08:56 PM

I still think it's Chuff.

Alty · Oct 6, 2008, 09:34 PM

I've been on this site since December and I've met many wonderful people, I consider them friends, even though I've never met them and chances are I never will.

We chat, we talk on the phone, we email, and we're all there for each other when we need each other.

There's nothing wrong with making friends here, just don't expect it to go further than that. The chances that you two will ever meet in person are very slim, right Chuff? ;)

Alty · Oct 6, 2008, 09:35 PM

Blaqlily, I've read your other posts, you seem to be interested in quite a few guys right now. Why not stick to someone that you can actually see in person?

AmExp · Oct 6, 2008, 09:49 PM

Is this a joke or? I mean what would be the point of carrying this on if there is absolutely no chance of even being his friend?

talaniman · Oct 7, 2008, 06:52 AM

Originally Posted by Blaq lily

i like this guy i have been chatting with but i do not even know what he look like and the is no chance of me seeing him, do you think i am crazy?:(

No just carried away, by some intense feelings, for an online buddy. If you keep expectations realistic you can enjoy it. Otherwise you'll make yourself hopelessly miserable.