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    #81

    Sep 30, 2008, 08:46 AM

    Okay guys, Come on now, She is only 13, Just let her off some slack, She is still maturing, I bet you were like this once. She is just a kid, and she still is, you guys are probably adult's, she doesn't understand some things, so she might take some things wrong. But if you want to post in here, Can you just post to help her? Even though they already broke up, but still, Help her out with it, So she can have the advice for other boy's that might come in her life and treat her badly. Thanks.
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    Sep 30, 2008, 08:53 AM

    I don't blame the people that she hung around with, she is her own person with her own mind. It shows a weak character if she is easy impressionable like that. Just because you hang out with people who smoke weed, doesn't mean you do it. I go to the gym 6 days a week, all my work out buddies take roids, I don't. I'm around them constantly, I just have will power.

    And typing like that takes a long time to do, regardless of habit or not. The people who have been here for long periods dedicate their spare time to try and give advice from real life expierences and to have a simple request from them to type proper is not out of hand or rude. Rude are the comments of her because she is acting like a immature little girl who didn't get the new toy she wanted for christmas
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    #83

    Sep 30, 2008, 09:01 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Romefalls19 View Post
    I don't blame the people that she hung around with, she is her own person with her own mind. It shows a weak character if she is easy impressionable like that. Just because you hang out with people who smoke weed, doesn't mean you do it. I go to the gym 6 days a week, all my work out buddies take roids, I don't. I'm around them constantly, I just have will power.

    And typing like that takes a long time to do, regardless of habit or not. The people who have been here for long periods of time dedicate their spare time to try and give advice from real life expierences and to have a simple request from them to type proper is not out of hand or rude. Rude are the comments of her because she is acting like a immature little girl who didn't get the new toy she wanted for christmas
    Just because your much bigger and mature, Doesn't mean you need to beat down on a little kid like that. Have some common sense, And use it.
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    Sep 30, 2008, 09:03 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Romefalls19 View Post
    Just because you hang out with people who smoke weed, doesn't mean you do it. I go to the gym 6 days a week, all my work out buddies take roids, I don't. I'm around them constantly, I just have will power.
    That has happened to my older cousin, So don't say "doesnt mean you do it" Sometimes when you hang around people who do that ALL the time, YOU Become apart of the habit, And YOU start to do it.
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    Sep 30, 2008, 09:08 AM
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    Your right that has happened to one of my friends and family members once.
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    Sep 30, 2008, 09:19 AM

    Because they are weak willed people who are easily impressionable. That's not the people they hang around faults. He chose to hang out with those people, he could have found a new group of friends.
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    Sep 30, 2008, 09:21 AM
    Also, please learn the rules for disagreeing with a post, simply because a family member signs on doesn't mean you can also disagree. I will wait for the regulars to toss in a balancer which I am sure will come.
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    Sep 30, 2008, 09:21 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Romefalls19 View Post
    Because they are weak willed people who are easily impressionable. That's not the people they hang around faults. He chose to hang out with those people, he could have found a new group of friends.
    Yea okay, But still.. It still becomes a habit no matter what.. You get attached to it.
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    Sep 30, 2008, 09:22 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Romefalls19 View Post
    Also, please learn the rules for disagreeing with a post, simply because a family member signs on doesn't mean you can also disagree. I will wait for the regulars to toss in a balancer which I am sure will come.
    Lol? Just because my cousin disagreed, Doesn't mean I just disagreed because she did, I felt the same way.
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    Sep 30, 2008, 09:23 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by jj890 View Post
    Just because your much bigger and mature, Doesnt mean you need to beat down on a little kid like that. Have some common sense, And use it.
    How did I beat a little kid down I simply said she was immature, which at 13, she is. I also said she is impressionable, which once again, at 13 she is. So if you're going to use common sense tactics, please point them to your cousin for the group of friends she chose to hang out with. Thanks
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    Sep 30, 2008, 09:25 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Romefalls19 View Post
    How did I beat a little kid down I simply said she was immature, which at 13, she is. I also said she is impressionable, which once again, at 13 she is. So if you're going to use common sense tactics, please point them to your cousin for the group of friends she chose to hang out with. Thanks
    It's not my chose to choose who she wants to hang out with or not, Its her's, I can't force her to do something she doesn't want to do. Come on now.. You're an adult.. Use that brain of yours.. This post is done. Goodbye.
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    Sep 30, 2008, 09:29 AM

    Use that brain of mine? Please use yours and learn grammar, you seem to want to try and force me to stop sharing LIFE EXPIERENCES on this forum to help people. If she wants to stop a habit, blame her friends for that habit then that's on her. But only she can fix it, by finding a new circle of friends, which is her best option.

    When someone is battling a drug problem, they will tell them to stop hanging around that crowd because you fall into that trap. Oh wait, there I go comparing factual evidence again.
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    Sep 30, 2008, 09:33 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Romefalls19 View Post
    Use that brain of mine? Please use yours and learn grammer, you seem to want to try and force me to stop sharing LIFE EXPIERENCES on this forum to help people. If she wants to stop a habit, blame her friends for that habit then that's on her. But only she can fix it, by finding a new circle of friends, which is her best option.
    We are blaming her friends, As I said before, And I do have precise grammar? And she doesn't want to find a new circle of friends she likes her friends and likes how she types, Just because you people don't like how she types doesn't mean she needs to find a new set of friends and change her typing.
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    #94

    Sep 30, 2008, 09:35 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by jj890 View Post
    We are blaming her friends, As I said before, And I do have precise grammar? And she doesnt want to find a new circle of friends she likes her friends and likes how she types, Just because you people dont like how she types doesnt mean she needs to find a new set of friends and change her typing.
    I won't comment on your grammar yet again. If she does not wish to change her typing or her friends, that is her decision but every action has an equal an opposite reaction. The reaction of this happens to be comments about the way she types and people diminishing her post by her lack of proper typing skills.
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    Sep 30, 2008, 09:36 AM

    Why do you ask for people to stop posting in here yet you feel the need to comment on everything? I mean you wanted it to die then let it die.
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    Sep 30, 2008, 09:38 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by wikedjuggalo View Post
    Why do you ask for people to stop posting in here yet you feel the need to comment on everything? I mean you wanted it to die then let it die.
    Eh, it doesn't bother me much wiked as IT life today is once again very dull. I just wish people would read the board rules for when they disagree with a post. Oh well, guess we can't always get what we want!
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    Sep 30, 2008, 09:41 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Romefalls19 View Post
    Eh, it doesn't bother me much wiked as IT life today is once again very dull. I just wish people would read the board rules for when they disagree with a post. Oh well, guess we can't always get what we want!
    Lol, I was not referring to you. If I felt like being a jerk today I'd continue tearing at this topic but I felt since he asked so nicely I'd stop. He has continued to argue and post so hell I'll join in. Soon I'll be joining the IT field going into networking then software engineer.
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    Sep 30, 2008, 09:47 AM

    JJ-The whole point of this is to learn from the mistakes of others, and get some solutions to problems. If you ignore the advice, so be it, but supporting the bad behavior of your cousin, does neither, of you any good.

    While I understand defending her, to make the excuse that its okay to be disrespectful and break the rules, is utterly irresponsible on your part.

    If that's the stance you think is best, the expect a LOT of negative feedback, until the administration deletes this as being irrelevant to the site and against the rules.
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    Sep 30, 2008, 09:48 AM

    Ha ha I know you weren't referring to me, I was just responding with why I have continued this battle of wits with someone so under armed.

    That's awesome! I'm in the networking field as well, it is a great field to go into, people will always need computers and the internet will always be around as well. Hope all goes well!
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    Sep 30, 2008, 09:52 AM

    Tal, when will these kids learn? We are only trying to tell them things because we have been where they are before? I'm positive we have all hung around a crowd that probably wasn't in our best interestes before.

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