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    iamtheone69 Posts: 12, Reputation: -2
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    Aug 6, 2008, 01:12 AM
    Relationship advise!
    Is it possible that a 16 year old girl would lose her virginity to a guy within a 2 month time frame of dating him... and then break up with him? A girl wouldn't break up with a guy that she lost his virginity too would she?
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    Aug 6, 2008, 02:57 AM
    Of course she would. All relationships end. All of them do... except your final one. It will take you many, many tries to find a girl who is compatible enough to stay with you for 60 years!

    It is nuts, and you know it, to think a 16 year old girl could be "the one", it's totally romantic, but nuts all the same.

    Having had sex, you're now going to make the inevitable breakup even more difficult, aren't you? You don't have to do that, you know?

    Every relationship you have will eventually end, for one reason or another. It's up to you what kind of person you're going to be at those end times. Are you going to be one of those people who can only walk away and move on if there is some hatefulness or despair or out of control anger?

    I hope not.

    All of your relationships will end, for one good reason or another... until after many tries, you finally find yourself dating someone who is in exactly the same place as you in all the important ways and you two decide then, after a LONG dating tryout, to stay together forever.

    At 16, you know it's too early for that. You have a LOT to learn about love and women, and you won't learn from one girl.

    Take your life lessons from this girl, repeat the good things in your next endeavor, do less of the bad things. Try not to make the same mistakes over and over, OK?
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    Aug 6, 2008, 04:56 AM
    Yea she would, if they didn't then every girl would be with their first and that certainly is not the case.
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    Aug 6, 2008, 08:57 AM
    Sure she would walk away with no regrets. She may take fond memories with her, but she will be gone from your life.

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