
Originally Posted by
Ash123
[B]ps - what is your religion as compared to his?[/U]
I think he's kind of in limbo, he doesn't go to church unless he's in Alabama and goes to a baptist church with his family there. Here he doesn't go, he just thinks he's got to have his 2 cents on every religion. He went to a catholic school, doesn't believe that either. He's always questioning god and creation and evolution and all that fun stuff.
I'm a Jehovah's Witness. He says it doesn't bother him that I'm that but if we had kids he wouldn't want me to have any influence on their religion.
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I feel as though he's pushing me away. Tal, you're right. I do have a lot to learn about him. I thought I new things. But lately everything has changed. He's been acting really weird.
Background: We were best friends for a little over a year before we got together. Then we got together and everything was fine up until about a month ago when I got my own apartment. After that happened he whines more about spending time with me (he wants more time than I feel like giving) and this weekend it just felt like he was trying to get me to end it. And when I almost did, he cried and said "I'm so afraid you'll leave me."
He has 3 issues with me: 1. The fact that I spend time with my parents 2. My independence 3. My religion. He said he can get over the first two. He said he can't get over the third, so I told him he either has to deal with it or find someone else. He didn't want to do that.
Every single conversation he's started with me this weekend has led to a fight, though. Is it possible he wants out, but doesn't want to hurt me? Or he wants out but at the same time he doesn't?