[lost456]

So me and my girlfriend have been dating on and off for 2 years and this past one has been the best so far! I was so happy and if felt like it would never end. She always talked to this one other guy and she always told me they were just friends and she never cheats. A few days ago she said she was starting to like him as more than a friend I didn't panic because this had happened before I thought she loved me too much. But then it got worse so I tried talking to her and I kept telling her how I didn't want to lose her she said I would never lose her as a best friend and I asked if she wanted me as a best friend or a boyfriend she said she really needed a best friend right now. She says she still cares about me but she felt like things were falling apart and the love she has isn't enough to base a relationship off so I told her I will try my hardest to get that love back she said she wanted me to and she wanted everything to go back to how it was a month ago when it was all OK. She also said she didn't want to hurt me again because she has crushed me 3 times. So that guy asked her out on a date and I'm freaking out I know its just a date but I don't want anything to happen and her to fall in love with him I just can't stand the thought of losing her it too much for me... please help

[ylaira]

You sound like a good man to me but unfortunately your GF isnt that much into you. She already ditched you 3 times and that should tell you she's not happy and you are not compatible.

You find someone who will treat you right. Dont settle for less.

[Rockstar714]

Didn't you already post this same question on another thread?

[lost456]

Yes I did sorry