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    chelocs14 Posts: 45, Reputation: 2
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    Jul 18, 2008, 05:42 AM
    Am I stupid
    My boyfriend has ADHD and is a skitzafrenic. I love him but I don't want to be with him. When he argues with someone it pushes me thurther away from him what should I do? Dump him or keep him. He is 15 and I am 14.
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    Jul 18, 2008, 05:47 AM
    Well, my first instinct is to say dump him. There are other guys you will meet that won't drive you crazy. At 14, you shouldn't be tied down with a guy you don't like. Maybe if he matures more, in a year or 2 you can revisit the relationship and see if it works out then.
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    Jul 22, 2008, 12:32 AM
    You need to help yourself before you can help others.
    If you love him and you feel like you can't fully give yourself to him because of his condition then you need to stand back and do what's right for you at the time.

    If he loves you he will wait for you.
    But until you can fully cope with his condition your negative feelings may begin to overload onto you until you explode and it might break your relationship
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    Jul 22, 2008, 06:09 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by smokedetector
    Well, my first instinct is to say dump him. There are other guys you will meet that wont drive you crazy. At 14, you shouldn't be tied down with a guy you don't like. Maybe if he matures more, in a year or 2 you can revisit the relationship and see if it works out then.
    Very good answer and I agree, at 14 you shouldn't be thinking should you dump him, at that age you have loads of stuff to come.
    P.S. Im only 16 and even at 16 I don't think I should be tied down with a relationship.
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    Jul 22, 2008, 06:12 PM
    Get rid of what you don't need! Why the adoption of those type of problems at such a young age? Move on, and focus on other priorities for now... School, family, not so much on friends but you can keep one or two good friends.

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