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    qwertpoiuy0 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 14, 2008, 04:39 PM
    Can't live with him can't live without him
    We were going out a year and in the past couple of months he has bcome very distant and never makes me feel loved and he pushed so far that I had to break up with him... and he still dusnt care andhe even has the nerve to say that I should beg to get bak with him... all I want is to feel wanted and its like he dusnt care if I want to be with him or not... I told hi if he loves like he ses he does then why dusnt he fite for me and his reply was... "its not my problem,u broke up with me".. but I thought if you love someone you will do anything to keep them... and he said that even if we do get back together that he won't change.. and now I'm so confused because I don't know weather I want to e with him or now... cos I love him more that anything... but I'm just being hurt all the time... I would appreciate any advice you could give me
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    Jul 14, 2008, 04:52 PM
    Dear, if its really love then it shouldn't hurt. You didn't say anything positive why you should go back with him. Don't you feel sorry for yourself when you lay to sleep at night? How old are you? Join clubs, get into sports, try a new hobby, collect collectible items, Study hard, soar high so when you meet again, your head is help up high!

    PS. You should love yourself more than anyone. Without that love, you have nothing to give and you'll just suck and suck and suck.
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    Jul 14, 2008, 05:01 PM
    Don' ever think you can' t live or cope without a man because you can. He does not give you air to breathe or keep the blood flowing throughout your body. He always told you what he's unwilling to do. Move on and in time your heart will heal. Love is about two people being together and willing to do anything to make the relationship work, not one. It might sound hard right now but leave him alone and go on with your life.
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    Jul 14, 2008, 07:28 PM
    We know that it is easier said than done but that's the best we can advise to you. You are not alone and this shall pass.
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    Jul 15, 2008, 05:32 AM
    Love should never hurt, obviously you guys are done your run. Go no contact and just start healing, you will find someone who will give you what you want
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