[JayJayTheJet]

I'm Jessica.
I've been doing some research about pregnancy for about 2-3 days now. I've been looking at the signs, and I have a few.

Such as-
Leaking of the breast.
White spots on nipples (only have seen once)
Going to the bathroom more.
Eatting more.
Cramping as if I was on a period.
Nipples hurting to the touch.
Throwing up. Yesterday morning, and about 2 minutes ago.
Nipples are a pink/brownish color.
(I think there a little bigger too)

:( :confused: :eek:

My boyfriend and I used a condom, and he says he's 100% sure I'm not pregnant. Just because 2 weeks later, after having sex, I had a period. I can't tell if I miss one or not, because I don't have one every month, I have it every other month. I'm freaking out, because I'm not really the kind of girl to get pregnant, you know? And, I know I'm not ready to be a mother. But, I'm scared that if I am, my boyfriend is going to leave me, but he told me he could never do that to me because he never really knew his real father. I'm JUST turned 16 on the 24th of June. I'm scared Sh*tless. Help please?

[N0help4u]

Can you or your boyfriend buy one of those pregnancy testers?
Calm down and think through what you need to do if you do happen to be pregnant.
It isn't the end of the world. Many teens that end up pregnant that are 'really not the kind of girl to get pregnant' manage even when they were afraid their parents would 'kill' them.

[DoulaLC]

I know what you mean by saying you aren't the kind of girl to get pregnant, but if you are having sex, you are that kind of girl. Condoms are not 100% effective, so anytime you have sex, there will always be that chance. Too many people think it won't happen to them, but it can and does... even to those who use protection, even to "good" girls.

You'll have to wait and see what happens with your next period, or you could try taking a pregnancy test... in most cases, if you are pregnant from that one incident, it would show up by now. Was the period you had a normal period for you? Normal amount of bleeding? Lasted the normal length of time? Many of the symptoms you describe are also similar to when a period is about due. If you take a test, and it is negative... give it another week or so and try another one for the peace of mind.

You may want to consider another form of birth control to go along with the condoms for added protection. When used correctly, condoms offer pretty good protection... but you will obviously decrease the possibility of a pregnancy even more by combining it with something else.

[N0help4u]

I am pretty sure she means she isn't one of those teens that is obsessed with being a teenage mom and purposely was out to get pregnant. There are a lot of teen girls like that.

[imscared29]

Hey I'm only 14 and I don't have an answer to any of that but sounds to me like you might be pregnant. Hang in there though. I might be too.
I don't think he will leave you. It is both of your repsnsibility to have this kid or not have this kid. Don't worry but go to a clinic or something to fnd out for sure.

[LifesNotEasy]

You really need to find out as soon as posible. I was 15 when I fell pregnant, and we used a condom. I found out when I was 3 months gone and it was a total shock because it had been my first and only time to have sex. Well, the point of my story is, when I found out I only had 6 months left of being a normal teenager and not even normal at that. And then it didn't help when I found out it was twin. Its not that I regret having them but it did take away my childhood.
And about not being the kind of girl, neither was I, I was anything but. I know now for the rest off my life most people are going to think I was that girl. That's life I suppose..
Just find out as fast as you can and don't be scared to get a pregnancy test or going to the doctor.

[babygirl1092]

I use to be "that kind of girl" and at 16 I had my beautiful baby girl and I woudnt change that for the world... but u just have to step up and be ready as much as possible if you are pregnant, and if not look into some birthcontrol. And even if u thik your not "that kind of girl" u had sex so u are "that kind of girl" u put yourself at risk to have sex and sex=babies.

[babygirl1092]

I use to be "that kind of girl" and at 16 I had my beautiful baby girl and I woudnt change that for the world... but u just have to step up and be ready as much as possible if you are pregnant, and if not look into some birthcontrol. And even if u thik your not "that kind of girl" u had sex so u are "that kind of girl" u put yourself at risk to have sex and sex=babies.

[babygirl1092]

I use to not be "that kind of girl" and at 16 I had my beautiful baby girl and I woudnt change that for the world... but u just have to step up and be ready as much as possible if you are pregnant, and if not look into some birthcontrol. And even if u think your not "that kind of girl" u had sex so u are "that kind of girl" u put yourself at risk to have sex and sex=babies.

[N0help4u]

You don't need to keep posting the same thing repeatedly especially within a half hour of each other,

Thanks