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sameer20007 · Jun 27, 2008, 07:10 AM

My girl friend is going to marry some other person but this is all because of her parents and it is those people who are compiling her to marry that person, she still love me but I am not able to decide what to do and what to not because yet I am not employed and can not take the responsibility what do you people suggest what I should do?:confused:

N0help4u · Jun 27, 2008, 07:30 AM

If she is willing to go along with what they say there isn't much you can do.
If he is not right for her they could eventually end up divorced.
Other than having a heart to heart talk with her I don't think there is anything else you can do at this point. Get a job, get your life together and take it from there.

poppyla0011 · Jun 27, 2008, 10:18 AM

What? I hate to tell you but she is not your girlfriend.
Say bye-bye.

If she is marrying someone else. Do you really want to be the other man?

sameer20007 · Jun 28, 2008, 06:00 AM

Originally Posted by N0help4u

If she is willing to go along with what they say there isn't much you can do.
If he is not right for her they could eventually end up divorced.
Other than having a heart to heart talk with her I don't think there is anything else you can do at this point. Get a job, get your life together and take it from there.

Thank u

talaniman · Jun 28, 2008, 07:06 AM

She is not yours to love as she will have a husband soon. Get your own female, and a job.

Doesn't matter what she says, but it does matter what she does. She is getting married, sorry.

teezee · Jun 29, 2008, 02:15 AM

#1. Get a job.
Get your own place, be an adult. Convince her to act like an adult as well and say NO. We are in America (Im assuming you live here) and no one should have to tolerate anything of that nature, including their parents culture (it is clearly not HER culture and she is an adult so make sure she knows that). She can definitely choose her own lifestyle if she wishes. You need to convince her that much if she cares enough about you. Otherwise, there's nothing none of us can do to help you except to tell you to stand up for the situation and take action.

Distantlove · Jun 30, 2008, 05:31 AM

If she really loved you, if she loved you THAT strong, if she was REALLY serious about being with you, she would say NO to her parents.

But she hasn't. She is going to get married soon and you cannot be that other man. You need to find a lady who YOU can have, and not have to sacrifice for some other man to have children with. How is that going to make you feel?

Let her go, it's the best thing you can do right now because you can't persuade her atm to leave this other man. Leave her and start over your own life. I'm not saying it will be easy but you need to search for your own happiness, rather than dig deeper for it and get nowhere.