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    WeAreLost Posts: 36, Reputation: 3
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    Jun 13, 2008, 02:00 PM
    My Kids are Back up for her, now that she's a widow.
    My Mom has brain washed my two kids she has given them more of what they wanted clothes and has set up trusts and told them they will be well off when she goes. The plan is now that she a widow she won't be alone and have two great kids to do for her. Meanwhile, Im now ready to kill myself Sunday I probably won't see them, she has used every control and munipulating tool to her advantage. Im lost What can I do? I want to be loved not only by my kids but my mom to. This is a big let down seeing that Im not wanted around at all.
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    Jun 13, 2008, 02:02 PM
    There is much more to this story than you have given us here. Why would you want to just give up and kill yourself. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

    Can you please give us more details so that we can help you better?
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    Jun 13, 2008, 02:12 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by WeAreLost
    My Mom has brain washed my two kids she has given them more of what they wanted clothes and has set up trusts and told them they will be well off when she goes. The plan is now that she a widow she wont be alone and have two great kids to do for her. Meanwhile, Im now ready to kill myself Sunday I probably wont see them, she has used every control and munipulating tool to her advantage. Im lost What can I do? I want to be loved not only by my kids but my mom to. This is a big let down seeing that Im not wanted around at all.
    Why don't you try to gradually get them away from your mother say things like no were not going to grandmas today were going to go to the park together and remember they are you kids not hers try to explain that to your mother and if you can't explain and that won't work be firm and don't let her be around them as much say no mom I can get them that or no they don't need that I don't want them to be spoiled. My friends mother seems to be the same as her and she did what I suggested before and it's a lot better for her. Try or consider. I hope it works out it the children's favor and yours! :)

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