[ayna]

Its so confusing because the break up happened so quickly, one minute we were telling each other that we wanted to live together, the next he's telling me he just wants to be friends, I thought we were perfect for each other, that's why its confusing. Am I totally naïve in thinking that he's not contacted to give stuff back because maybe he wants to keep things and is maybe just as upset about the whole thing as I am?
I understand that as "friends" you don't have 2 contact them everyday or every week even, but as boyfriend and girlfriend we had been through a lot together, for nearly 2 years, so to go from that 2 not talking even after splitting up, is making my brain hurt in trying 2 understand what I'm to do about him.

[talaniman]

Your in shock, and it will wear off, and then you leave him alone and lick your wounds and heal.

[JBeaucaire]

Am i totally naive in thinking that he's not contacted to give stuff back because maybe he wants to keep things and is maybe just as upset about the whole thing as I am?

Yes.

... my brain (is) hurtin' tryin' to understand what I'm to do about him.

Then cut it out.