[kellyandben1234]

My boyfriend lives with me I love him and he always tells me he loves me but on the weekend he goes out to his mums and turnes his phone off and don't come bak till 2 or 3 in the moring I think he is cheating because he has before I don't know what to do

[CheekyChop20]

My girlfriend stayed with me for years even though she didn't trust me, not only does it make the relationship unnecessarily dramatic. After the damage of me cheating on her, the rest of our relationship could be seen as us gearing up to a break up - make this easier for the both of you either learn to trust him or leave him - don't drag it out like we did.

[NorthernNiceGuy]

If he was capable of cheating on you once he can do it again... I could never forgive someone I was with if they cheated on me. Look at how its affected you, if he hadn't cheated on you before would you be feeling like this right now? To me you only get one strike when it comes to that. Save yourself the heart ache and get out of this relationship. You deserve someone that would never do that to you.

[JBeaucaire]

Pretty straightforward, dear.

• You actually DO know that he's cheating again.
• You actually DO know what you need to do.
• You're REAL question is "how do I get up the nerve to call it quits? This will feel like a failure!"

The only FAILURE is if you see facts staring you right in the face and you ignore them and end up married to a guy like this. THAT'S failure. Getting away from this situation and on to the next one is an absolute success.

Choose success. Please.

[talaniman]

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...nd-166731.html,

It takes years, and a lot of hard work to rebuild trust, and you aren't there yet, and maybe he isn't helping so maybe its time for an honest SELF evaluation, and some real RE-EVALUATION, of this relationship!

[chuff]

my boyfriend lives with me i love him and he always tells me he loves me but on the weekend he goes out to his mums and turnes his phone off and dont come bak till 2 or 3 in the moring

I will disagree with the masses here and say Ben wants alone time, away from you. Nothing wrong with it, he lives with you he sees you enough, he doesn't have to phone you every 10 minutes.

i think he is cheating cos he has before

Well if he cheated before, that's when the trust went out of the relationship and a relationship without trust isn't a relationship.

i dont know wat to do

Leave him, get your head back on straight and find one of the millions of guys that won't cheat on you.