[blakeisgr869]

I've already posted something similar about the same girl a few weeks back it went like this:

About a year and a half ago I started chatting to this girl on myspace, she looked pretty hot and we spoke practically everyday and exchanged numbers etc. turned out she was starting at the same college as me and we met up in college a few times and really clicked, but I only got the odd hug and usually had to ask for them! Then she stopped replying to my texts so I thought she wasn't interested! I then got with another girl (but never stopped liking the first girl) and we dated for 10 months and have been split up for 2months now. Ive started texting the original girl again, getting the odd reply but still not to every text. Then I got drunk with my mates one night and she was out with us, I stayed round at hers alone, just me and her in the house but didn't make a move! Then a few days later I had a party, my ex was there and so was she! They had an argument and the original girl found out I like and have always liked her, about an hour later she got off with me and we continued to throughout the night! I knew she had a boyfriend though and stopped and said we shouldn't do this you have a boyfriend, she then explained to me how he doesn't satisfy her and there relationship is coming to an end, bonus I thought, then she told me she liked me as well, even better! We slept in the same bed that night but didn't do anything sexual! Then a few days later back at college she says to me why have you been telling people we kissed, if my boyfriend finds out I'm in so much !

Present day: we went to a gig together a few days back and were touchy feely all night, I was giving her hugs and piggy backs all night and we were talking about sex most of the ride back! When I got back to hers she lent in to kiss me and I stupidly turned my head away so she could only kiss me on the cheek, she immediately got out of the car and all the way home I was thinking 'what have I done? I've ruined things now!' so I sent her a slightly drunk text when I got home saying I needed to tell her lots of things but didn't! So the next morning she texts me like what do you need to tell me? But I don't have the guts to say when I see her at college, so I go out with her and my mates that night and avoid her most of the night out of sheer fright! Later that night its just us 2 though and she asks me what it was and I tell her some of it, mainly that I think she should dump her boyfriend but I don't tell her that I fancy her or that I would gladly go out with her! She then tells me she's wanted to dump her boyfriend for months but doesn't have the guts as she gets on really well with his family and he's already got her an iPod for xmas! There's a party next weekend that were both going to and I know something's going to happen between us, I would just like advice as to whether she does actually fancy me or if its just a convenience thing?

Cheers

[Ladyviper]

If you really like her, then leave her alone until she and her boyfriend are finished. If she likes you, she will seek you out when the time is right. You don't want to be the rebound guy, and that is what you will be if she runs from his arms to yours.

[Applejacks83irv]

Stay away because if he finds out in anyway he going to kick your ask, in one way or another? Because I had this homeboy of my did the same thing he found out laterz in the relationship that his girl was messing with this guy and he found out, and laterz he seen them to gether and beat that guys ask, and he turn to he'z chick and say its over and now you can date him... and you know what she did? She want her boyfriend back and left the other guy an't that some sh#t but he never took her back and azz for the other guy he didn't want her ether... so if you want to save you an azz kicking stay way until she break up with the other voto and just stay as friend then go out with her... but wait if you think about it? She waiting for that iPod? So what if she dose the same with you?

[blakeisgr869]

stay away because if he finds out in anyway he going to kick your ask, in one way or another? because i had this homeboy of my did the same thing he found out laterz in the relationship that his girl was messing with this guy and he found out, and laterz he seen them to gether and beat that guys ask, and he turn to he'z chick and say its over and now you can date him....and you know what she did? she want her boyfriend back and left the other guy an't that some sh#t but he never took her back and azz for the other guy he didn't want her ether....so if you want to save you an azz kicking stay way untill she break up with the other voto and jsut stay as friend then go out with her...but wait if you think about it? she waiting for that ipod? So what if she dose the same with you?

This guy is smaller than me in build but not in height but I still reckon I could take him to be honest so the getting my ask kicked doesn't scare me really! She's not just waiting for the iPod because I suggested to her, why not just wait until you get the iPod then dump him and she said she's not that cruel, but that is one thing that worries me - if she cheats on this guy so easily would she cheat on me as well?

[Applejacks83irv]

this guy is smaller than me in build but not in height but i still reckon i could take him 2 be honest so the getting my ask kicked doesnt scare me really! shes not just waiting for the ipod cus i suggested to her, why not just wait until you get the ipod then dump him and she said shes not that cruel, but that is one thing that worries me - if she cheats on this guy so easily would she cheat on me as well?

Well it can happin you know? What they say (once a cheater always a cheater) and if yougave her that ideal to wait for the iPod... then let put you in her BF shoes? Your in love, your in love oh babe hope you love your gift she get it right then some days past... then he's hurt and heartbroken.. So you might want to see if you can get her to break up with him now instead of leading him on and if she won't then for get her and move to the next cat that's swing her tell at you...