Distraght over my ex.

hjpan · Jun 6, 2008, 09:47 PM

Originally Posted by ajhastings88

Well today was it, i told her that " we could not be cool, or be friends any longer " she said " ok, thank you for letting me know " I said "no problem". guys i think she is gone for good. i feel kinda good and bad at the same time. I feel like she doesnt care at all. I mean how can a year just be pushed away like a snap of a finger. I treated her like a queen, and she told me her self that she had never had anyone like me before, and that she prayed for someone like me? Wierd. At least i am not her little drag along buddy. but damn, she gave up quick as hell. I took her from her lowest times and stood by her side for a year for her. all i asked from her was her trust and her love, thats it.by the way today is her birthday. it was hard being her friend, she is highly attractive and she has allot of guy friends. it was hurting me more being "cool" with her.it's just amazing how quickly she gave up on us. no fight what so ever. like she showed no remorse.

Most likely, she did not want to break down in front of you. Nobody wants to "lose face" according to the old chinese phrase.

sokay · Jun 6, 2008, 10:05 PM

Well said! A lot of truth in there.

ajhastings88 · Jun 7, 2008, 02:07 AM

Tonight was awsome I went to club europe and had a blast, almost ever girl was on me, ( the guys did not like that at all). I feel a lot better now that I told her we can't be friends, and also went to the club and had girls all over me, it makes you feel like you haven't really lost anything, ( well for me). I love you guys, you guys are awsome. Without you guys I would be lost , and sitting at home thinking of ways to get my ex back, ex#1 begging. Hang in there guys, get out there, have fun. Most of us on here with problems are young, live life. You partner made the mistake of hurting you, and losing you, they will figure it out later in life, and regret losing you. Hopefully you will be moved on by then if not, you will be a totally different person, ready for whatever they bring to the table. Remember I love you guys. Ok it 5 in the morning and I am tired. PEACE OUT.

hjpan · Jun 7, 2008, 02:35 AM

Originally Posted by ajhastings88

tonight was awsome i went to club europe and had a blast, almost ever girl was on me, ( the guys did not like that at all). i feel alot better now that i told her we can't be friends, and also went to the club and had girls all over me, it makes you feel like you havent really lost anything, ( well for me). i love you guys, you guys are awsome. Without you guys i would be lost , and sitting at home thinking of ways to get my ex back, ex#1 begging. Hang in there guys, get out there, have fun. Most of us on here with problems are young, live life. You partner made the mistake of hurting you, and losing you, they will figure it out later in life, and regret losing you. hopefully you will be moved on by then if not, you will be a totally different person, ready for whatever they bring to the table. remember i love you guys. Ok it 5 in the morning and i am tired. PEACE OUT.

"Outstanding! Ooh rah!" as a marine would usually congratulate.

For me, I am thinking of enlisting in the Army =/
Many people oppose my idea, but I am looking forward for a military career.

I also want to learn how to drift with a car xD

jpm247 · Jun 7, 2008, 02:47 AM

Very similar to me AJ,

I was with my ex for a year, and she said all manner of things to me, which led me to believe that we were in for the long haul, but out of the blue to me, she ended it.

Im not friends with her, but I treated her much in the same manner you did, so I have no remorse as I gave it all I could, and it just was'nt meant to be. Better things out there all round for all of us.

Remember their actions will speak much louder than their words, something I have learned the hard way. Ill be very wary of what someone says to me. Ill base them on their actions in future.

Keep up the good work, and enjoy the hangover. 11am in england!

Chameleon · Jun 7, 2008, 02:52 AM

Congrats! Now just lose the phone number, the email addy and if she texts you, just delete it without answering! Be mr. nice guy to those who deserve it, but don't be a pushover! You'll meet someone terrific! Laters!

Chery · Jun 7, 2008, 03:46 AM

Originally Posted by ajhastings88

tonight was awsome i went to club europe and had a blast, almost ever girl was on me, ( the guys did not like that at all). i feel alot better now that i told her we can't be friends, and also went to the club and had girls all over me, it makes you feel like you havent really lost anything, ( well for me). i love you guys, you guys are awsome. Without you guys i would be lost , and sitting at home thinking of ways to get my ex back, ex#1 begging. Hang in there guys, get out there, have fun. Most of us on here with problems are young, live life. You partner made the mistake of hurting you, and losing you, they will figure it out later in life, and regret losing you. hopefully you will be moved on by then if not, you will be a totally different person, ready for whatever they bring to the table. remember i love you guys. Ok it 5 in the morning and i am tired. PEACE OUT.

That's the attitude! Keep yourself available and busy. It is her loss. We learn from each relationship and what we learn helps us the next time Don't let anything stop you and just remember that you should respect as you want to be respected - that always helps.

Have a great weekend!

bigbird213 · Jun 7, 2008, 10:17 AM

Originally Posted by jpm247

keep up the good work, and enjoy the hangover. 11am in england!

LOL

ajhastings88 · Sep 3, 2008, 04:02 PM

Hello Ladies and Men... It has been months since I have talk to you guys... Do I have a story for you guys. L8tr. Miss you guys!!

bigbird213 · Sep 3, 2008, 04:05 PM

Hey man,

We'll be around when you decide to post it up :)

Take care

ajhastings88 · Sep 6, 2008, 11:45 PM

HHEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Everyone!! Must I tell you... you guys are a geniuses ( spelling). I am well over my ex and pursuing a new young lady I like ( kind of now). We are friends now but I have been very attravted to her. But until tonight everything just shutdown with me and her. I just became soooo unintrsted after I had a nice legnthy conversation. I think I am just to use the no contact method for a while, so I can begin to miss her. I really like her, she is evrything I am looking for in a girl. O your first date she look at me and asked, are you always this nice and cool to all the females you take out? I say, " Babygirl I dont take girls out like that if thats what your trying to get to. She replies Oh well i hope you dont have an agenda for me to be your girl, Because i am not looking for a relationship. I laugh and say, " No I am not trying to be your man, and to think that I was really that intrested in you, really makes me chuckle inside, now please don't interrupt me like that agian" all with a smile. ( I think I did good ) anyway I was really digging her for a long time. But after tonight I am just not feeling it, and now that I am really feeling her, and I am just about to go NC, Maybe it might spark something inside of me? But some girls tell me that I would hurt her feeling if I went NC. TONIGHT... what do you guys think? ( excuse the grammar and spelling... very Tired )

makapuu · Mar 17, 2009, 09:47 PM

Follow your heart. Do you like the thrill of the chase? Or are you afraid to be alone? It sounds like you and your ex are both, but not at the same time.

ajhastings88 · Sep 26, 2009, 10:24 AM

LOL... Long time no see guys... I can't tell you how it feels to look back and see were I was compared to were I am now. Lots of info I got to tell you guys, and a whole lot of updates...

DerelictHerds · Sep 26, 2009, 10:28 AM

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