[Kworried]

I'm 14 and there's this girl in my school, and I've known her for three years and I just think that she is so beautifull and cearing and I really do actually love her. I want her to be my girlfrend and I've asked her manny times and she rejects me, in a nice way, see were really close friends but I want her to be more than that, I get seriously depressed about this and really don't know what to do, I try to move on but I can't lie to myself and just think that deep down I still love her
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
:mad:

[JBeaucaire]

First, getting depressed is just a total waste of energy. Focusing on yourself really isn't the point of dating, is it? We're supposed to be looking for ways to enrich the lives of others, not just get what we want or pout about it. OK? Onward...

You should learn that honesty is what you WANT in life. Do you really want to go through life just having everyone agree with your likes, dislikes, wants, etc. How will you ever truly enjoy the triumph of talking a girl into finally going out with you and later admitting you're a great catch? If every girl you ever pine for automatically pines back, wouldn't that actually be boring?

So, life is proceeding normally for you. You're going to get to go through this many times in your life. You will like someone, go after them, and they won't be interested.

Flip it around for a second, don't you think there will be a time when someone will be interested in YOU and you won't be interested? How will you handle that scenario?

Once you know how you'll handle THAT, maybe it will help you know what to do in your current situation. What do you think?