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    kitten94515 Posts: 115, Reputation: 4
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    #1

    May 29, 2008, 02:55 PM
    desperate & nervous with a guy.
    kayy so if u read my other posts, this is the same guy.
    I got over the first one.
    but yet.
    when I saw him again I was so nervous I couldn't breathe.
    and I'm not overreacting, I was gasping for air.
    I mean ? Am I a loser?
    then I walked like two miles away.
    ha.
    no joke.
    I'm so nervous in front of him, ^that happens.
    I've liked him for over a year.
    and like.
    ):!
    I want to go out with him or at least get a hug, you know?
    what should I do?
    I'm friends with his friends but it seems me and him don't hang.
    like.
    should I tell him that I like him;;? in between gasping breathes, lmao
    and I don't know how to calm down.
    just help me, please and thanks. :o



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    #2

    May 29, 2008, 04:02 PM
    I'm not sure there's any easy way to do this. If I liked a girl SO MUCH that I couldn't even breathe properly around her, I'd probably have to NOT be around her.

    I much prefer someone I'm able to naturally and normally be myself and "cool" around. Someone who sends my adrenaline out the roof... I guess I couldn't trust myself at all around her. I'd have to stay away.
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    #3

    May 29, 2008, 04:08 PM
    Well I mean.
    I can't stay away.
    I really, really like him.
    More than anything else.
    And, I can control myself;;
    Just not my breathing.
    And...
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    #4

    May 30, 2008, 02:53 PM
    Thanks.
    [:
    But another problem is that I hardly ever see him, and when I do I flip out.
    And I don't think there's anyway really to contact him.

    I'm scared. Lol.
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    May 30, 2008, 09:51 PM
    okay, firstly, try your best to chill, you know think of the good things that can happen between you two, and if his friends like you the way you are, why wouldn't he? I know how you feel, but he is a human being so he'll probably interact well all you have to do is RELAX. Lol, now,before going up to him and randomly saying something like "hi i like you." and leaving him a little weirded out, talk to him first, get to know him, at least hang out with him when your with mutual friends that are with him. Act casually and than as u two get to know eachtoher tell him you have a thing for him. That will do wonders, and if u rely see him so rarely that that's not really a possibility get your friends to talk about you to him, I guess? Well good luck, hope I helped in the slightest way!
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    May 31, 2008, 08:50 AM
    Thanks.

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